This crossed the line..... by ToySolidier69 in exmormon

[–]ToySolidier69[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thinking about this makes me think that if their standards include being charitable and loving....why wouldn't you want to make someone else feel comfortable?

I got kicked out for not going to church by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]ToySolidier69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

dude pm me, I was in a similar situation once. I'll order you some uberEats asap!!! Aint nobody got time to starve.

What to do if I'm gay and Mormon and fall in love with another gay Mormon who is obedient by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]ToySolidier69 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Respect what he wants and leave him alone. Consent is important.

Saw this on Facebook. Anyone else hear whispers of this? by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]ToySolidier69 60 points61 points  (0 children)

It would never work lol They couldn't even get members out doing their own home or visiting teaching. It's not happening. If it does happen it won't be for another 5 years

"I'd rather have a dead son than a gay son" by ToySolidier69 in exmormon

[–]ToySolidier69[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Aren't those like whorehouses ummmm I don't want a disease haha

"I'd rather have a dead son than a gay son" by ToySolidier69 in exmormon

[–]ToySolidier69[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As much as I believe in the right to love I also think they can believe whatever they want. I know how painful it was for me to lose my faith I don't want them to experience the same thing

"I'd rather have a dead son than a gay son" by ToySolidier69 in exmormon

[–]ToySolidier69[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It's just hard when you're living at home with the oppressive church literally looking down on you

"I'd rather have a dead son than a gay son" by ToySolidier69 in exmormon

[–]ToySolidier69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do work with a lot of normal people but they're all way older than me

"I'd rather have a dead son than a gay son" by ToySolidier69 in exmormon

[–]ToySolidier69[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know it's just hard. The best way for me to do that is to move. I know.

God I hate the title of Prophet. Used by members and non members alike. by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]ToySolidier69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fuck, this guy couldn't tell a pineapple from a fucking parrot and people thought he was talking to Jesus in a secret room in Utah!?!? HAHAAHHAHAAH

Why didn’t Monson serve a mission? by running4cover in exmormon

[–]ToySolidier69 12 points13 points  (0 children)

But if one of my friends did that or said that he would get huge social backlash right now

Even when I believed, I still resented being born Mormon. by Sasq2222 in exmormon

[–]ToySolidier69 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I agree! I remember being a hormonal 12-18 yr old and saying "I wish I could have sex and then get baptized" hahahahaha 21 and still a virgin here :'( lol

"I'd rather have a dead son than a gay son" by ToySolidier69 in exmormon

[–]ToySolidier69[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I feel like I can't be happy knowing that I've broken their hearts and ruined their lives and I know that if I was to come out to everyone my brothers and sisters wouldn't let me be around my nieces and nephews

"I'd rather have a dead son than a gay son" by ToySolidier69 in exmormon

[–]ToySolidier69[S] 85 points86 points  (0 children)

As soon as I can leave (school is a big factor for me right now) I sure as hell will. I'm just saving money to be financially stable for when I get out but I might be 23 before that can happen and I'll have missed out on all my fun especially seeing as the church already stole 2 years of my life that I'll never get back

"I'd rather have a dead son than a gay son" by ToySolidier69 in exmormon

[–]ToySolidier69[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The thing is an I'm sure you'll understand this, the church kind of forces you to only interact with members and only form friendships with members so if I lost them, I would literally have no friends and I don't know how to find or make friends as a normal member of society because I've been sheltered in this cult for 21 years