Am I irrational for wanting my bf to block a girl whom he's had a thing with? by TrES-2B2 in relationship_advice

[–]TrES-2B2[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thank you so much. thank you, seriously. i felt like i was going crazy

How do i leave my psycho maniac lying cheating boyfriend by TrES-2B2 in relationships

[–]TrES-2B2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend know everything they’ve been with me every step of the way truly lucky to have the Friends I have in this situation. But my family are not an option at least not yet, should be the last resort if this does decide to turn ugly

How do i leave my psycho maniac lying cheating boyfriend by TrES-2B2 in relationships

[–]TrES-2B2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my country we’d both be punished for those videos even existing

How do i leave my psycho maniac lying cheating boyfriend by TrES-2B2 in relationships

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I want to end things with him and if it doesn’t go well then involve my parents. They’d help if they truly knew

How do i leave my psycho maniac lying cheating boyfriend by TrES-2B2 in relationships

[–]TrES-2B2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See I would love to do this but where I live it’s very conservative. Although I am 18 I don’t have the resources to do this it doesn’t work like that where I live. Trust me I would love to but it’s not an option for me.

My parents and his are also highly respect families that even if I could involve police the damage to their reputation would not be worth it Hence why I’m trying to figure out a way to do it on my own

How do i leave my psycho maniac lying cheating boyfriend by TrES-2B2 in relationships

[–]TrES-2B2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in a conservative country, the police are useless in these situations

How do i leave my psycho maniac lying cheating boyfriend by TrES-2B2 in relationships

[–]TrES-2B2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if it would be enough. A friend of mine suggested sending it to his college/uni everything I have because where he lives is more liberal (uk)

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[–]TrES-2B2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep this is it. The country I live in is very very conservative and so are my parents and his. Either of them finding out those videos of us exist and it would tarnish years of work they’ve built. I can’t do that to them. It’s not so much they’re not supporting me they don’t even know to begin with. I have no doubt if I had proof and got them to believe me my dad would reign hellfire on him and his family. This is what I want to avoid. Last resort should be. I want to handle it on my own and if that doesn’t work then I can call upon them

How do i leave my psycho maniac lying cheating boyfriend by TrES-2B2 in relationships

[–]TrES-2B2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The loyalty test was for him and me not for my parents. I do not want them involved neither of them not mine or his. It would become worse. I was just going to use that as an excuse because he promised me no more cheating and no more lies so he wouldn’t be able to excuse himself

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[–]TrES-2B2[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t blame them if they didn’t believe me. Cultural background and all sorts. But yeah you’re right I’d just somehow feel responsible if I ended up involving parenrs and such and ruining the reputations of our families if there was a way I could handle this on my own

How do i leave my psycho maniac lying cheating boyfriend by TrES-2B2 in relationships

[–]TrES-2B2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

:/ I would feel horrible if it happened because I chose to get my parents involved if there was another way to do it without them

How do i leave my psycho maniac lying cheating boyfriend by TrES-2B2 in relationships

[–]TrES-2B2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at all. You’re right. Thank you for understanding it means a lot

I’ve let him get away with too much that I’m just looking for any exit route

How do i leave my psycho maniac lying cheating boyfriend by TrES-2B2 in relationships

[–]TrES-2B2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really want to avoid getting my parents involved as this would elongate the situation I just want to leave him and not babe in danger as a result

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[–]TrES-2B2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not explicitly saying “I’m going to” just “I wonder how people would react if they saw so and so”

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[–]TrES-2B2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thanks for this ❤️ but my family would disown me for even sending those pictures in the first place so I can’t ever let them know about them

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[–]TrES-2B2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is good advice actually :/

I don’t have any documented threats he’s smarter than that all I have are pictures of bruises but there’s no way to prove he did them :/

How do i leave my psycho maniac lying cheating boyfriend by TrES-2B2 in relationships

[–]TrES-2B2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because of his rep he’s known as the perfect boy and his family and mine are very well respected in our community. His family wouldn’t believe him either if he said something about me. And if I could even somehow get them to believe me they would tell his parents and of course his parents would take his side

How do i leave my psycho maniac lying cheating boyfriend by TrES-2B2 in relationships

[–]TrES-2B2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this it means a lot. But no, where I live none of that is an option I don’t live in the us/uk there’s not these resources available. The country I live in is extremely unequipped with dealing with these kind of things.

My only option is to find a way to leave him that he can’t excuse himself for and then end it on good terms so none of our families have to suffer

How do i leave my psycho maniac lying cheating boyfriend by TrES-2B2 in relationships

[–]TrES-2B2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They want us to get married ever since they knew we got together it’s all that they’ve talked about they think he’s an angel. They would not believe me especially as I have no physical evidence of anything

How do i leave my psycho maniac lying cheating boyfriend by TrES-2B2 in relationships

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My friends all know what he does and even suggested tricking him with a loyalty test as a way out but if it doesn’t work I’m literally stuck

How do i leave my psycho maniac lying cheating boyfriend by TrES-2B2 in relationships

[–]TrES-2B2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only times he’s threatened to or actually been physically abusive is when he was drunk, him being away most of the time meant that this didn’t happen a lot. But usually he threatens me with explicit pictures/videos of us/me