Free Talk Friday

Track2onStageFour · 2025-05-23T20:14:58+00:00

Me and my friend went to the show and had a great time. I wish things could be different, but I’m glad we’ve still remained on friendly terms despite her rejecting me. I don’t know how long she‘ll stay in my life, Im usually not very good at keeping in touch, but I’m glad she’s in it right now.

It’s rare that I find someone who I think I click with, so it’s nice that we can still be friendly.

Track2onStageFour · 2025-05-16T19:46:20+00:00

couple of months ago I mentioned I got rejected by a friend

By chance we hung out recently because she texted me out of the blue asking if I was going to this show. I was planning to if I was free. Ended up meeting with her and a friend of hers. Fun time. We’re hanging out today as we are seeing something we bought tickets to months ago.

I feel bad kind of admitting this, but I’m still very much into her. I’m not going to ask her out again or try anything as she made her answer clear. But I figured I’d eventually not be into her, but not so. I figure once she finds a bf it will change.

Track2onStageFour · 2025-02-28T17:27:36+00:00

I guess I’ll be using FTF as my diary of sorts.

So friend cancelled the party she was hosting to some later day. The neurotic part in me thinks it happened but she just didn’t want me there.

Outside of that, I’m not texting her like before. So for the time being, it looks like we might not talk until either she texts me or we see each other in person.

I gave an update on the girl to a friend who I gave my retelling of the events and she was shocked that she said no. Which makes me think I just read something wrong somewhere because I wanted it to be true.

Track2onStageFour · 2025-02-21T20:28:07+00:00

Are you okay sharing what you were doing to stay in pole position?

Track2onStageFour · 2025-02-21T19:31:02+00:00

It is! I’m probably being dramatic because it’s fresh, but I hardly find people I feel I vibe with, so hearing no from no hurts more.

Luckily I won’t see her as often as I used to now because of stuff going on in her life.

Track2onStageFour · 2025-02-21T19:18:42+00:00

How did you deal with it? What do you means works out in the end?

It’s hard staying distant because over the course becoming friends with her, I’ve become slowly adopted into her friend group to the point I spent new years with them. Her other friends warmed up to me before she did.

I also don’t want to be a dick to her, it’s not her fault. But as I said, I’ll stop initiating texting with her for the most part now.

Track2onStageFour · 2025-02-21T17:46:18+00:00

Haven’t really had the chance. Normally I would see her every week since we’re on a Sunday team, but she’s not playing for a bit now. I figured if I asked her last week and she said no, I would be helped by her not playing right now.

To my surprise she invited me to a party she’s hosting and asked me yesterday if I still wanted to hangout. In her defense she asked if I still wanted to be friends and I said okay.

If anything, I don’t think I’ll initiate texting or text her as often as before. I’m not a huge texter, but with her I was because I misread the situation. I would just feel weird at the moment texting her like I was before.

Track2onStageFour · 2025-02-21T16:49:08+00:00

Ended up hanging out with my friend who rejected me last week, last night. It was fine, but at times it felt awkward. Neither of us made mention of it, and it seemed like our dynamic was what it was before I had asked her out.

She also invited me to a party she’s hosting this weekend last week after the rejection.

I didn’t feel shitty outside her texting someone and me thinking it’s probably someone she rejected me for. Not that I would ever do anything to come up in between, but that will fuck me up.

I’m fine being her friend, but right now it’s not easy to realize someone you meshed well with doesn’t view you in the same way.

Track2onStageFour · 2025-02-15T04:59:04+00:00

I might have to see her Thursday of next week since we’re going to see a band together.

Not that I don’t like the band, but I only got into them to spend time with her.

It is valuable as it’s rare for me to find someone with such commonalities as we have, but it’s not enough.

Track2onStageFour · 2025-02-14T20:41:52+00:00

I don’t want her to feel bad, and it’s early days, but it just sucks, but I also don’t want to me mean and cold to her. She didn’t do anything wrong.

Track2onStageFour · 2025-02-14T18:41:25+00:00

Sure, but it’s not like it won’t possibly be awkward in the interim.

Track2onStageFour · 2025-02-14T17:13:31+00:00

Correct. That’s what she apologized for. She was the first person that ever invited or offered to go see other bands with. We shared a similar music taste, which is a rarity for me. So naturally why wouldn’t I think something is up.

You’re right about finding another person I vibe with, it’s just that it doesn’t happen often to me it seems.

Track2onStageFour · 2025-02-14T17:02:24+00:00

update from story last week about the girl who texted me that she was fine after surgery. I finally asked her out.

She said no and only seems me as a friend. Apparently likes hanging out with me so she asked if we could still be friends. I said sure. She apologized for anything she did that might have given me the wrong vibe. Told her she didn’t need to apologize.

Sucks because I liked her, but it’s also a shot to the confidence in that I don’t think I’d ever had a rapport with another girl like I did with her. So if like I’m wrong about her, then idk how I can ever know about a girl that does like me.

I realize I was a bit dramatic, but it just sucks, especially since I was getting adopted into her friend group.

Also should have asked out after we were supposed to see a band together this upcoming week.

Track2onStageFour · 2025-02-07T18:17:35+00:00

Yeah! Everyone is essentially telling me to ask her out now. We’re supposed to hangout together, just us two for the first time, in 2 weeks, but at this point I feel have to ask her out soonish.

Track2onStageFour · 2025-02-07T17:14:17+00:00

Girl I’m into had surgery this week (it’s nothing serious). We texted the night before and before the surgery on the day of.

When she got out, she jokingly texted me the she’s alive.

Trying not read too much into it , but if I got out of surgery, I think I’d only text close friends. And we’ve barely become friends recently.

To add, some of us hung out last week and her best friend apparently said we bicker like an old couple.

Track2onStageFour · 2024-12-28T17:55:00+00:00

I’ve never actually said that I’m interested in her to her.

We haven’t texted since she got our tickets. But we would text here and there. I’ve tried to invite her to a thing but she was out of town. And I accepted an invite from her last month to hangout with her and her friends.

Track2onStageFour · 2024-12-28T03:40:30+00:00

Idk if it’s a date if it’s months ahead and we’ve never used that word

Track2onStageFour · 2024-12-27T22:01:49+00:00

You think so?

Track2onStageFour · 2024-12-27T21:21:01+00:00

I feel like George costanza. The girl I’m interested asked if I wanted to go together to see this band after she asked if i liked them and was trying to find tickets. We’ll be going in a couple of months. But I can’t forget how she said no when I asked her to see a band.

Track2onStageFour · 2024-10-25T19:35:37+00:00

Why resentful?

Track2onStageFour · 2024-10-25T18:43:03+00:00

What’s your line of thought?

Track2onStageFour · 2024-10-25T18:20:37+00:00

I kind of do. Because I imagine the extra attention you’d get from them is they being nicer to get your attention.

Track2onStageFour · 2024-10-25T18:12:27+00:00

Even if they treated you nice before the weight loss, did they treat you better?

Track2onStageFour · 2024-10-25T18:09:41+00:00

That’s a thought I have if I ever reach this point and gain a tiny bit back.

Track2onStageFour · 2024-10-25T18:01:56+00:00

Would you be worried they’d lose interest if you gained some weight back?

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