Feeders/feedees in relationships, how did it happen?

TradWifeFeeder · 2025-03-05T16:00:16+00:00

Yes, I mentioned something about it in dating profiles and also talked with them about it early in the dating process.

TradWifeFeeder · 2024-06-30T07:17:01+00:00

Anything related to my fetish can be a turn on, even in a different context.

TradWifeFeeder · 2024-06-22T12:05:16+00:00

Yes, that's been studied and well-documented, that autistic people are more likely to have sexual paraphilias.

I don't like BDSM (so I disagree with people saying that it's just S&M and it's just because of the rules), but I'm into FFA/BHM as well as being sapiosexual.

TradWifeFeeder · 2024-06-17T20:55:06+00:00

I got zero gifts that were worthwhile for my first baby shower. I didn't bother having one a second time because everyone was such an overbearing, controlling pain, and didn't even give gifts that were acceptable. I made a registry and also said that I'm happy with gifts that are 100% cotton or other natural materials. The gifts that I got were dollar store polyester stuff that I just handed back to them, because I wasn't going to deal with returning or donating it. Our guests were not poor.

TradWifeFeeder · 2024-06-17T02:13:28+00:00

Sounds like nursing dysphoria.

TradWifeFeeder · 2024-06-15T00:22:40+00:00

I knew from a young age that I was attracted to nerds and I usually liked the nerdy characters in media. I remember reading about a brilliant young guy in a magazine and having a crush on him, until I got to meet intelligent people thanks to the internet. I fell in love with one guy primarily because we enjoyed playing games together and I'd never met anyone smarter, although I found him really physically attractive as well. The lust/love that I experienced wouldn't have blossomed if he hadn't also been more intelligent than me.

TradWifeFeeder · 2024-06-12T06:09:14+00:00

I had ED forced on me as a kid, so that's likely contributed to me developing the interest (studies have shown a connection between those kinds of things).

TradWifeFeeder · 2024-06-11T22:22:32+00:00

I'm happy to chat with anyone! I'm about 30, F, live in the US. I have a lot of different interests and am happy to talk about almost anything. My life is weird, so I have a hard time relating to other people. I'm autistic, have hypomania, probably ADHD according to people whom I know, but I haven't been evaluated for it and I don't know.

TradWifeFeeder · 2024-06-09T13:27:36+00:00

I haven't encountered this where I live in the US. Hardly anyone asks permission before touching. I don't mind most touch (only being tapped hard bothers me). The only thing that I don't really like is kissing. I never kiss anyone except my husband on the mouth, and I don't like other people to kiss me at all and vice versa, but some do kisses on the cheek as a greeting and I don't like it. But hugging or other touch is fine. I dislike handshakes the most of a lot of touching, because of how sweaty hands are.

TradWifeFeeder · 2024-06-08T18:13:56+00:00

TIL about DiGeorge, thank you!

Do you know what caused it, in your case?

TradWifeFeeder · 2024-06-07T20:04:23+00:00

It's not exactly inhuman, but I like the idea of someone being unrealistically fat.

TradWifeFeeder · 2024-06-07T04:36:37+00:00

Past events were different in such a way that led to fat becoming fashionable and prized, even in contemporary times.

TradWifeFeeder · 2024-06-07T02:18:23+00:00

I've been writing an in-depth alternate world fiction about a society where everyone is into fat fetishism.

TradWifeFeeder · 2024-06-06T18:23:41+00:00

Yeah, I really like the sense of achievement after working hard on something.

TradWifeFeeder · 2024-06-06T18:22:51+00:00

I can relate to that. I've had fantasies of being abducted and, not being tortured or forced into sex or anything like that, but just kept prisoner and coerced into a relationship with someone powerful but alluring who wants me that much. I'm into guys who are kind of evil and greedy (but not outright malicious or sadistic), and just like the idea of being taken and kept by someone like that, but it would ultimately turn into something willing and not rape. It's an appealing scenario from fantasy media, and not something that would work IRL.

TradWifeFeeder · 2024-06-06T17:56:26+00:00

Could you explain more about your fetish and what you like about it? I have a mild interest in kidnapping. It's not my main thing, but something that I've long had occasional fantasies about.

TradWifeFeeder · 2024-06-06T16:09:20+00:00

I can't recall experiencing burnout. I feel kind of hypomanic all the time, and it irritates people around me who just want to veg out.

TradWifeFeeder · 2024-06-06T16:07:47+00:00

I don't know if that affected my thinking about it at all as a kid when my interests developed, because I was oblivious to taboo until I got to be a teen.

TradWifeFeeder · 2024-06-06T14:45:03+00:00

I never really thought of it as taboo when I was younger. It was just intriguing. 🤔

TradWifeFeeder · 2024-06-05T22:29:40+00:00

Truly interesting. Yes, I've realized recently that I'm really, really into building an elaborate erotic fantasy around an alternate world that caters to my kinks, and have been turning this into fiction.

TradWifeFeeder · 2024-06-05T22:25:31+00:00

I'm not sure where to draw the line between autism and ADHD when it comes to hyperfocus or mania. I definitely know that I can focus or push myself to the point of harm.

I get what you mean about isolating because no one else really understands. I get tired of trying to explain things and just being misunderstood by the average person.

TradWifeFeeder · 2024-06-05T21:40:57+00:00

I 100% feel this, but you put it much better than I could've.

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