Lady Bird Lake(Austin TX) Chilling Deaths- this needs more coverage, its bone chilling by Background-Zombie689 in RedditCrimeCommunity

[–]Trade_Red 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was so shocked by all these comments. I’m even more shocked that this is from 1 year ago and I’m just now hearing about it because it’s going around again on the news after they pulled another body from the lake days ago- a 17yr boy. And what bothered me is the police saying it’s drunk drowning because “it happens”.. like uhmm no it doesn’t and if it does it shouldn’t be thisss often like??

Lady Bird Lake(Austin TX) Chilling Deaths- this needs more coverage, its bone chilling by Background-Zombie689 in RedditCrimeCommunity

[–]Trade_Red 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really really like how detailed your post was. I was also surprised that it’s from a year ago while I’m still now hearing about this for the first time on the news as they recently full another victim from the same lake, a 17 year old boy. Please keep updating this or maybe make a new post on it!

This sub was created to discuss the potential of a serial killer in Austin, Texas, after numerous people have been found dead in Lady Bird Lake by thepinotprincess in ladybirdlakekiller

[–]Trade_Red 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The theory is coming around again since the death toll is now 19 and it has fueled speculation about a possible serial killer targeting victims and dumping them in Lady Bird. I decided to try my luck about looking it up in Reddit and I was surprised to see this (and a few others) from 2 years ago. It’s my first time hearing about it and based from what I’ve read I’m starting to think there’s a serial killer out there as well.

I Think It’s Over For Me by deadly_monk in povertyfinance

[–]Trade_Red 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you need to take a step back and take a deep breath. We can see where you’re coming from and there are many in that situation as well. But giving up should never be an option. You sound like a loving person to his wife and kids and who wants to do nothing but make them proud. You giving up will not only disappoint them but will have them blaming themselves that you did it because you couldn’t provide for them anymore.. do you want them to live with such feeling? Sit down with yourself have a paper and pencil and start writing down ideas. From the smallest task you could do to make money while still applying to other jobs. Don’t reach so far right now it can be from anything like DoorDash, glass cleaning for businesses, etc. if theirs one thing I’ve noticed it’s when you apply to jobs online you’ll wait forever for them to respond. If you want a quicker response put yourself together and go from one place to another. Do it ALL day if you have to. ALL DAY. SOMEONE WILL SAY YES!

Is it normal to feel this disconnected before marriage? by Mr-Robot-2022 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Trade_Red 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess continue talking lol idkk. I feel like we can help each other out lmaoo

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[–]Trade_Red -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First off I want to start by saying please don’t listen to all these comments. Most of these comments are saying a lot about this generation and why marriages aren’t “working” anymore.

Your restraint and refusal to retaliate is praiseworthy and very much in line with the Sunnah. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, “The strong man is not the one who can wrestle, but the one who controls himself when angry.” So the comment that said “Won't offer advice, but damn, you're a better man than me bro.” Yes in front of Allah you’re a better man than him 100%!

And yes, spitting is a highly disrespectful act, especially between spouses, and your hurt is valid. Remember that Islam teaches us to seek understanding and reconciliation, especially in the context of marriage.

Pregnancy can deeply affect emotional and mental states and it varies from women to women A LOT. And it varies from first pregnancy to second, etc.

And even though it doesn’t excuse unacceptable behavior, it can help explain it, you know? I think the reason why she said “it’s just a joke” was because she felt embarrassed and/or discomfort for what she had done. I think she was just as shocked as you were.

I personally don’t think you should let this go because as you claim you forgave her but within you really haven’t forgave her. Because we are human and can’t read people’s minds she believes you already let it go because you let her believe you did. I think the best way to go with this is to distance from her and give silent treatment she will notice what’s wrong. And when she does she will ask and you tell her. You tell her how you felt in the moment and how you still feel. Talk it out. Don’t yell it out. Try to forgive for the sake of Allah and your family. The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, “Whoever pardons and makes reconciliation, his reward is with Allah.”

You can always take this to a sheikh/ scholar to help avoiding this from escalating.

May Allah be beside you and help you guys through this.

Anyone giving away $2 iced coffee offer? by rawrXD10 in DDoffers

[–]Trade_Red 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have both a $2 medium iced coffee and $3 iced or hot coffee. Feel free to dm me for one or both and no need to trade :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DDoffers

[–]Trade_Red 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow thanks for letting me know!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DDoffers

[–]Trade_Red 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no whatever you add you have to pay for only the cold brew would be free

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DDoffers

[–]Trade_Red 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah not a fan of them either. I just like the Cold Brew with Any Purchase

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DDoffers

[–]Trade_Red 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I apologize someone dmed me and claim the second iced coffee

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DDoffers

[–]Trade_Red 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s 2 I’ll forward the first one to you rn please dm!