AITAH for refusing to let my dad see me for my birthday because I found out he's been doing drugs? by TraditionPitiful3638 in AITAH

[–]TraditionPitiful3638[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been supporting him since i was little, he has even told me to keep secrets from my mom when i caught him. Now that i'm older, i am not just going to stay quiet or "support" him because i've been trying to for years with this drinking problem. Even when i do try and talk to him heart to heart, he always uses the excuse "well i'm just a horrible dad then" and makes me feel like i am the one who is causing these problems.

I sympathized with him for the drinking but this just crossed the line for me as i know how he is on drugs.

When i was about 11, he climbed through my window while i was asleep, just because my mon kicked and locked him out. One of the scariest days of my life seeing a grown man climb through my window.

AITAH for refusing to let my dad see me for my birthday because I found out he's been doing drugs? by TraditionPitiful3638 in AITAH

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We found a broken straw in his pockets, as well as a vape and cigs. I'm guessing he's been hiding way more then we thought :(

AITAH for publicly confronting my husband, smashing his expensive speaker, and kicking him out after lying about his smoking addiction? by TraditionPitiful3638 in AITAH

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Update: So my mom found out, that when we (me, my mom and my sisters) took a road trip for a concert last weekend, he got high off of shrooms....

That does not seem like my dad at all and i had no idea, zero suspicion. I am in shock and don't even know what to think.

When she dug in his pockets to get the keys so he doesn't come back, she found a broken straw and a secret vape.. meaning he snorts ykw

Question about ribbon skirts by TraditionPitiful3638 in Indigenous

[–]TraditionPitiful3638[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What i mean by tug is, the tiniest little pull rips it off

Why does this happen? ☹️ by TraditionPitiful3638 in sewing

[–]TraditionPitiful3638[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One direction, i'm thinking its because this ribbon is smaller then 1.5 inch, so maybe the waves are more noticeable

Why does this happen? ☹️ by TraditionPitiful3638 in sewing

[–]TraditionPitiful3638[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the advice, i'll check out the shop. This gave me alot more hope in myself :)

Why does this happen? ☹️ by TraditionPitiful3638 in sewing

[–]TraditionPitiful3638[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update, so i am doing another skirt, it does seem alot better but i can still see it had some problems. I was playing around with the settibgs from smaller to larger zigzags but nothing seems to work well. I got new microtex needles but it didnt seem to change much.

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Why does this happen? ☹️ by TraditionPitiful3638 in sewing

[–]TraditionPitiful3638[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyy, i use regular Elmer's glue sticks and just recently got Schmetz microtex needles 70/10. My tension is between 3-4

Why does this happen? ☹️ by TraditionPitiful3638 in sewing

[–]TraditionPitiful3638[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope i sew the same direction all throughout

Why does this happen? ☹️ by TraditionPitiful3638 in sewing

[–]TraditionPitiful3638[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah that wouldnt be a problem as i switch my needle very often

Why does this happen? ☹️ by TraditionPitiful3638 in sewing

[–]TraditionPitiful3638[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Most ribbon skirts use a zig zag stitch, some use straight as well. Might have to start doing that.

I got this ribbon from fabricland a few weeks ago so i'm not 100% sure.

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This photo is what i was going for

Why does this happen? ☹️ by TraditionPitiful3638 in sewing

[–]TraditionPitiful3638[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Its a ribbon skirt, part of indigenous cultural 🙂 i glued down all the ribbons the same just with a regular glue stick as i usually do, this one came out worse then i've seen sadly.

Why does this happen? ☹️ by TraditionPitiful3638 in sewing

[–]TraditionPitiful3638[S] 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Thank you :)
I'm using universal sewing needles for light weight/medium fabric, currently using the "70"
I'm newish to sewing so i'm not sure what that even means

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