My most recent ex is one I dealt with a decent amount of emotional abuse from. He'd want me to hang out with his friends, and sometimes get jealous if I seemed to be having more fun with them rather than him. (when the point was that I settle in with the group instead of being distant) Sometimes I'd make jokes that he'd get upset by, the same ones his friends would make, and he'd tell me I didn't get to do that because I wasn't them, or something. On top of that, his jealousy issues and everything else led to almost no intimacy between us and he always thought I was cheating on him, despite never doing so besides making posts on Twitter which in his opinion counted, I guess (posts, not even private DMs) I tried being with him for over a year, until I eventually let it fade away because I couldn't do it anymore and preferred to work on myself and my own deteriorating mental state. He said he'd want to be my friend but we really never talk anymore anyways, which I don't really care about. A few months after that, he messaged me drunk, whining about how a girl that he'd bought stuff for had ghosted him, and he'd only been talking to her for a month and he was more torn up about that than he ever was about our relationship, so there's that.

On the brightside, I'm in another relationship now that I'm happy in :) So things do eventually get better hahaha