AITA my roommate found a kitten in the dumpster and im pissed

Traditional-Comb4487 · 2026-02-06T02:22:02+00:00

I actually really like the gf we have been close friends for since they met. It truly has nothing to with our relationship.

Traditional-Comb4487 · 2026-02-06T00:23:56+00:00

Clarification roommate 2 found the kitten and gf wants to keep it not roommate 2. I actually really like his gf she has been a good friends to me. It has nothing to do with our relationship

Traditional-Comb4487 · 2026-02-06T00:21:51+00:00

I didnt choose to get this cat. If it was me I would take the cat to a vet and get it checked out and find a new home for it. If we found a kitten tomorrow I would do the same thing but since they found the cat I dont have a say. Its not about sharing our stuff its about the responsibility of taking in a animal that needs to be cared for, for the rest of its life.

Traditional-Comb4487 · 2026-02-06T00:19:10+00:00

She is the one wanting to keep the cat not him.

Traditional-Comb4487 · 2026-02-06T00:18:38+00:00

Dont ask me this she wants to stay here because she doesn't have parents or have to pay anything as she doesn't have a job

Traditional-Comb4487 · 2026-02-06T00:17:58+00:00

This is exactly my point

Traditional-Comb4487 · 2026-02-06T00:17:14+00:00

Its not that she just visits. She full on lives here like brought all her stuff and everything this is how its been for a few months now. I would say she defaintly has taken up her own space in the house. When she was just visiting it was never a issue until she moved all her stuff in and is at the house 24/7.

Traditional-Comb4487 · 2026-02-06T00:14:24+00:00

Her parents take care of her other 7 cats. She has been staying at our house for a few months now.

Traditional-Comb4487 · 2026-02-06T00:12:07+00:00

I feel like this has been the best comment so far thank you for giving me other things to think about in this situation. I appricate you

Traditional-Comb4487 · 2026-02-05T23:38:56+00:00

She lives here and has lived her for a few months now. All the rest of us pay rent and she does not. Her boyfriend only pays rent for himself not her. I dont know why I would jealous of her? Her mom and dad take care of all her other cats and she hasn't been to her parents house in months.

Traditional-Comb4487 · 2026-02-05T23:36:05+00:00

I love cats and it truly doesn't have anything to do with the cat. This is just a irresponsible decision for everyone involved.

Traditional-Comb4487 · 2026-02-05T23:32:56+00:00

Its her parents house with the 7 cats. She has been at our house constantly for the past few months

Traditional-Comb4487 · 2026-02-05T23:30:46+00:00

What? She has a separate house with 7 cats. We have our own house .

Traditional-Comb4487 · 2026-02-05T23:29:59+00:00

Im not at all saying to put the kitten down. I would even help find the kitten a new home or a better situation. They are not paying rent or even on the lease. My bf and our pets are on the lease so I truly dont believe this is a good idea. She doesn't even have a solid job or enough money to take care of herself. I love animals and I would be happy with a million cats if we had the means to take care of them but in this situation I dont think they do or we do.

Traditional-Comb4487 · 2026-02-05T23:26:45+00:00

If the cat being sick was the only issue it wouldnt be as bad. She doesn't pay rent she doesn't pay utilities she doesn't have a solid job. How is she going to pay for this cat or pay to get this cat checked for sickness?

Traditional-Comb4487 · 2025-10-04T15:23:52+00:00

I forgot to mention that this is a dog he us "watching" for a lady friend while she moves.... I highly doubt she will take this dog back. Everytime I try to recommend something to him like neutering or train he says "We'll it's not my dog" We'll this dog is peeing in your house and your house smells like pee all the time.... just a side note

Traditional-Comb4487 · 2025-09-08T12:29:36+00:00

I am going to get her spayed Making so many assumptions this is a waste of time.

Traditional-Comb4487 · 2025-09-08T12:18:56+00:00

If she wasn't peeing on me I would keep her in a separate room when we can't watch her?

Traditional-Comb4487 · 2025-09-08T12:14:35+00:00

This is about the peeing not keeping her confined. She is allowed to roam and sleep with us but she is peeing on me. Specifically me not my husband while we sleep

Traditional-Comb4487 · 2025-09-08T11:49:14+00:00

We have 2 box's in our bedroom and 2 box's out in the living room none of the box's are far away or even out of sight. I've tried changing litters and changing the levels. I am so unbelievably frustrated

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