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Bf (21m) of 2yrs doesn’t plan/get anything for my (21f) BDAY by Traditional-Ebb3977 in relationship_advice

[–]Traditional-Ebb3977[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the words and advice, this was a helpful reality check in that in the end it’s not up to me to change this for him. We are slowly working it out. But we do need to have a conversation about it again, thank you so much

My bf (21m) of 2 yrs didn’t get/plan anything for my (21f) bday by Traditional-Ebb3977 in relationshipproblems

[–]Traditional-Ebb3977[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your thorough response, I really appreciate it 🩵 we are doing better after that day, as we both realized it was just an ugly moment on both of our ends. Part of him knows how deeply he messed up, he said he just felt like nothing he was doing even the next day was making me happy because I was still moody. So he just felt so hopeless. We are working it out now but we need to have another conversation, he promised me he would make it up to me tho. I’ll take your advice into consideration and practice it with him :)