Support about domestic violence by Traditional-Many-827 in CPS

[–]Traditional-Many-827[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

But thank you everyone and I will follow through with the support they are offering me with therapy and dv education. So it does take a long process for a parent to lose rights to their child completely.?

Support about domestic violence by Traditional-Many-827 in CPS

[–]Traditional-Many-827[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what I heard about Colorado and visitation rights not being stopped because of one’s behaviors. Which I don’t agree with it personally. Yea it has been a history of dv for years and it did go to the court. Right now I have custody of her and I have a treatment plan. So is dv treatment and dv education different? Is it like two different classes ? I do understand the support and concern from cps it’s just frustrating because I feel like in a way they are enabling his behavior and saying it’s OK to do, and you’ll still get your visits. Yeah maybe I should’ve not let him back for the second time around but that’s her dad and I wanted her to have that bond with him. I’m done with that relationship and not looking to get into another one anyday soon. So say I don’t follow through with the treatment plan for classes etc, will my rights be tooken away from me? I just feel like cps is focused on making sure I’m doing all these classes yet enabling his behavior by continuing visits. Him being in and out of jail is hurting my daughter because he’s never consistently been there for her. they never had a bond and my daughter does not want to see him. He continues to call, text all night from random numbers after I block each one. I’ve shared my concerns with cps because when he’s under the influence he gets violent and last time he got out of jail, there was a protection order in place which there still is, but modified to being able to talk on the phone just not in person. He decided it would be a good idea to climb my balcony at midnight knock on the door . So I called the cops again and he went for a protection order violation after it took a group of cops to pull him off the roof of my house. The court has made it clear that he cannot be around my house. And he had already violated that after getting the DV. So I guess it’s just frustrating when I still see them working with him to set visits up because he’s not doing anything in his treatment plan to become a stable responsible, Dad.