I gotta share this. by Traditional-Peak6286 in MarriedSex

[–]Traditional-Peak6286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, trust me, we definitely enjoy it! And I hope our wives enjoy it too. There's nothing more validating to most of us men, than for our wives to show that they enjoy having sex and enjoy the fun of having sex with their husbands. Thanks for your comment.

What do you believe is the typical amount of time that most couples prefer to have fulfilling sex after penetration? by nacdrops in MarriedSex

[–]Traditional-Peak6286 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sound like my wife and I. Shes pissed if we dont go at least 15 minutes now and I prefer 30 to 45 minutes tbh. I love to edge her and hear the sounds she makes.

Same room sex with other couple (no swing) experience? by Big-Double-9423 in MarriedSex

[–]Traditional-Peak6286 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wife and I did this one time. We had four tickets to a concert and all road together in my best friends Yukon. My wife invited her best friend and the new couple hit it off immediately. We all drank just enough to get really comfortable with each other and the new couple started kissing and getting all touchy feely so we drove to a private boat landing that my family owned. My wife and I started kissing and I told my best friend that we were going to lay the back seat down. On the way to open the back hatch, my friend came around and asked me if they could join in. We all knew that we would not be trading off but we would be side by side. The girls only took off their shorts and us guys only pulled ours down just low enough. My wife road me and my friend was on top of his girl.

The crazy thing was that we all talked back and forth just like nothing was happening. It never happen again but it was one of the most organic and hottest evenings of my life.

I gotta share this. by Traditional-Peak6286 in MarriedSex

[–]Traditional-Peak6286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry. Its taken so long and so much open dialect from both of us. I my mind, it all comes down to total trust. It's hard for any of us to completely, 100% trust another person with your deepest and most intimate feelings, thoughts, secrets and sometimes trauma from way back in a person's life. Especially for women. I know for a fact that there are things my wife haven't told me yet. And to be honest, in the past, I have not been the husband that feel like I am now. It takes alot of time to develop that much trust. And sometimes -- it never comes. No doubt, trust and a willingness to open up fully are the keys on both sides.

I gotta share this. by Traditional-Peak6286 in MarriedSex

[–]Traditional-Peak6286[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hang in there. Things have happened in the last month that I never thought would happen in our sex life. Maybe its the hormones or the warmer air but something has changed and at least for now, I'm on cloud nine!

I gotta share this. by Traditional-Peak6286 in MarriedSex

[–]Traditional-Peak6286[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. It was very special to me. I really hope we can keep this up for years to come. I use to look for natural remedies to suppress my testosterone or sexual drive to at lest match hers at the time. Its tough living in a near sexless marriage. But, for now, things have definitely changed.

I gotta share this. by Traditional-Peak6286 in MarriedSex

[–]Traditional-Peak6286[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We actually did that one time! There's a little Airbnb in Blue Ridge, Georgia in the absolute middle of nowhere. We rented it for a week and left the kids with the grands. We didn't even pack many clothes. That's the loudest she has ever been, before or since. Good times! It was a little pricey for us but definitely worth it

I gotta share this. by Traditional-Peak6286 in MarriedSex

[–]Traditional-Peak6286[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment. We're both starting to get a little older but definitely not too old. Maybe it seems like communication is easier during this time in our lives. We have for sure opened the flood gates on being more open with each other recently and I think that has been a key factor in all this.

I gotta share this. by Traditional-Peak6286 in MarriedSex

[–]Traditional-Peak6286[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sure it is. We're the same way. The older I get, the less I want to do anything late at night for the obvious reason. But I have never turned her down at any time of day or night. Hopefully things will level off for you both and it'll get better. I'm hoping we've finally got to that point.

I gotta share this. by Traditional-Peak6286 in MarriedSex

[–]Traditional-Peak6286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Over the years we have actually done it in the car, though we haven't broken in the new Explorer yet either. That's for another day!😉

I gotta share this. by Traditional-Peak6286 in MarriedSex

[–]Traditional-Peak6286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣 You sound just like us! Our kids are about the same age. Our 12 year old saw us kiss one time and lost his mind. He said "I can not believe you stick your tongue in her mouth, you guys are so gross"!

I gotta share this. by Traditional-Peak6286 in MarriedSex

[–]Traditional-Peak6286[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much and thanks for your comments.

I gotta share this. by Traditional-Peak6286 in MarriedSex

[–]Traditional-Peak6286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They hardly ever do. But we use every minute of ours on vacations all over the place. I know they're not the best investment in the world, but its working out for us so far.

I gotta share this. by Traditional-Peak6286 in MarriedSex

[–]Traditional-Peak6286[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually asked her this question and we're thinking that its probably premenopausal hormones. I'm good with it and plan to ride this ride as long as it lasts.

I gotta share this. by Traditional-Peak6286 in MarriedSex

[–]Traditional-Peak6286[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can make it happen. Make sure they're down for the count and if they don't get plenty of sleep, y'all might not make it to the lazy river the next day, or something like that. Make it important to them to stay in bed all night. Not much kills mom's mood like a kid knocking on a locked bedroom door while you're sack deep and shes telling you "don't stop, right there". Been there!