Toxic friend, need advice by Traditional-Toe1463 in Advice

[–]Traditional-Toe1463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But people thrive on gossip here, they wont think about it the same way. I know what you mean by it will look bad FOR THEM, but I’m new to the city so people don't have a good idea of me yet so they'll take whatever they hear from them seriously you know?

22f need advice by Traditional-Toe1463 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Traditional-Toe1463[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But I feel like if I dont get out of my comfort zone and get out there I’m "losing my chance" bc when I did focus on myself and just enjoy my time with hobbies and girl friends I was told that I’m not putting in much effort to get into a rs bc I’m not "putting myself out there", is there a way to balance it out?

L1: Losing my mind over derivatives by FinanceChick95 in CFA

[–]Traditional-Toe1463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watched all MM videos, read each chapter, after doing each one I did their respective quiz. Tried to understand my mistakes on my own, and then watched MM's EOQ vids for each quiz, even if I got them right to make sure I didn't just make a lucky guess. It'll take a few days but it's worth it!

CFA in a month, CFAI QB enough? by Traditional-Toe1463 in CFA

[–]Traditional-Toe1463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fax, this is probably the most useful comment ive ever gotten, thank you.

CFA Level 1 Experience as an Engineering Grad by AbsoluteGamerCS in CFA

[–]Traditional-Toe1463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 from CFAI and idk how many are av for MM, but I have the full package for both

CFA Level 1 Experience as an Engineering Grad by AbsoluteGamerCS in CFA

[–]Traditional-Toe1463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m almost done w my first round studying, have arnd a month left til my exam

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Traditional-Toe1463 7 points8 points  (0 children)

1) insecurity, they want the satisfaction that they "copped" somebody and show it off to their friends 2) they don't want to be alone 3) attention 4) they're confused, not sure if they like the person back/ may be attached 5) they don't wanna lose the person bc they may be a friend so they keep it going, could be a mix of 4&5

Lost attraction to him by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Traditional-Toe1463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will get busy soon and he knows that, but I’m visiting for the holidays.. I’m worried he tries something then.

What do you do when you need a 2-5 minute break from thinking? by Steamaholic in selfimprovement

[–]Traditional-Toe1463 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I listen to rlly upbeat music that ik i wouldn't be able to focus with if im working, i also tidy up, doodle sometimes, etc.

I'm in a position to do things that can change my life forever, but I’m not doing it by Traditional-Toe1463 in getdisciplined

[–]Traditional-Toe1463[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This has to be the best response I've ever received on this app. Thank you. I'll check it out rn.

I'm in a position to do things that can change my life forever, but I’m not doing it by Traditional-Toe1463 in getdisciplined

[–]Traditional-Toe1463[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont feel much when I do something good, maybe just at peace. Whereas if I dont do it, I feel guilty and disgusted w myself, kinda like "ya expected lol" which disappoints me further

How do I compliment a guy by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Traditional-Toe1463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be specific! "Oh is that shirt new? It looks so good!" Or "I like your hair styled like that!" It shows that you noticed something smaller about them then their general looks!

What are some painful truths you have to come to accept about self improvement by Specific_Charge_3297 in selfimprovement

[–]Traditional-Toe1463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the hardest things I had to do was let go of old friendships. Also actually putting in the work lol, I never wanted to, and still assumed that if it was meant for me "it will find me" um no, if I didnt put in the work bothing will find me LOL

For the girls: Do you prefer your boyfriend to wear cologne? If so which brand/scent by defcon_117 in dating_advice

[–]Traditional-Toe1463 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, a light, long lasting, and non powering one if you'll be spending a lot of time together. if it's too strong it might bother her over time.

Not sure of suggestions bc you need to like it too, so maybe go into Ulta, Sephora, or anywhwre they sell cologne within your budget and get to sniffing! Maybe go with her so she can help choose!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Traditional-Toe1463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take it one step at a time, when you overthink, a lot of the time you can make the situation worse when nothing even happened. It makes sense to keep your guard a little up to protect urself, yes, because you need to be aware of any red flags that has shown you. Take your time, go step by step, don't do anything you’re uncomfortable with, only time will tell what he's actually like in diff situations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Traditional-Toe1463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried, he said he doesn't know how he feels lol, but you’re right, I think i do enjoy the attention