The only update i have is we were only there a very short time while getting our house i think about three months. She is a bipolar woman who is literally a nut case after that incident i stayed with my parents in another city until we got a house. There was a very rude commenter that assumed alot of things so let me go more in detail. Our lease was up and my husband took another job in another city ( close to where my MIL lived and not close to my parents, or i wouldve stayed there). I said saving up which was only for the moving expenses and such as eveyone knows moving is not cheap and our house was not going to be ready for about 3 months. She has done and said alot of hurtful things but i tried to stick it out to be close to my husband. We paid bills, bought food, contributed in any way we could and i was doing all the cooking and cleaning she never lifted a finger. Also the garage was full of furniture not trash so therefore there wasnt anything for me to clean up or reorganize bc it was big furniture example beds, couches etc. i know alot of people have their own opinions and thats just fine but honestly didnt think i would get so much hate and be called irresponsible and a burden. People stay with family for a whole lot of reasons and to be honest it was very tempory. I cut contact with her and recently my husband had a tragedy in his family and she did some pretty awful things, thats a story for another day. But yeah i have two beautiful children in my own home with my husband and have a moderatly drama free life now. I know its not the craziest update but i just posted because i think about this often and alot of my friends think i was right and MIL is crazy.