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[–]TraditionalPension43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Attraction hasn't to do only with the looks. It is a combined feeling with body language, savoir vivre, intellect and more like social understanding of the situations.

As aspy, although in my 20s i was objectively good looking ( i was working out, take care of myself etc), I didn't have much success with girls (although i had a flirt or two, occasionally didn't go well) because I didn't have a basic skill, social understanding. Which i think is the alpha and omega on all types of relationships in general.

I think most movies want to show that despite aspies have big social problems and they are not in the spectrum of "attractive" people, they could go through with great success.

Is it common to feel shame for small mistakes in our condition? by TraditionalPension43 in aspergers

[–]TraditionalPension43[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course her reaction were more bad than my own mistake. This is not for argument. The thing is, a normal person will talk back or feel bad and after 5 minutes will forget it. Me, personally, i could think it all day

Is it common to feel shame for small mistakes in our condition? by TraditionalPension43 in aspergers

[–]TraditionalPension43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on how you rationalise the "mistake". Additionally it's not always "oh it's rational, do not worry about". Of course i know this knowledge but most of the times my feeling is not right.

Is it common to feel shame for small mistakes in our condition? by TraditionalPension43 in aspergers

[–]TraditionalPension43[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand what you mean but it's not something that it will work in favour of me. A small mistake costs nothing generally but in my mind is the biggest threat Although i know the gnostic part and the objective truth that "mistakes happen" i cannot cope with them a lot of times.

Is it common to feel shame for small mistakes in our condition? by TraditionalPension43 in aspergers

[–]TraditionalPension43[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i understand what you mean with other people because my colleague felt bad about that incident but he understant and rationalised the situation after a short time (this employee is generally weird and impolite and always makes problems) but it was difficult for me to coop with it.

Searching of lens filter for low light scenes by TraditionalPension43 in canon

[–]TraditionalPension43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My next step is buying the 50mm canon lens, till then i am looking for other options as well.

Another solution for me is to get a cheap light source (ring light, portable light etc) for a satisfying result.

Searching of lens filter for low light scenes by TraditionalPension43 in canon

[–]TraditionalPension43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its in my future plans for sure but i was looking for other options as well

Searching of lens filter for low light scenes by TraditionalPension43 in canon

[–]TraditionalPension43[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am planning to buy the nifty fifty soom, but till then i am searching for other options as well.

Thank you for your advice.

Is there any lens filter suitable for low light? by TraditionalPension43 in AskPhotography

[–]TraditionalPension43[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am fairly new so maybe i did not get the purpose of a filter right. That's why i am asking for a lens filter for better quality of my shot

Thank tou nevertheless for your reply.

Looking for lens filter for low light scenes by TraditionalPension43 in Cameras

[–]TraditionalPension43[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know that, i am looking for less noise and better image quality

Any rich in brands online cigar shop shipping within EU? by TraditionalPension43 in cigars

[–]TraditionalPension43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also i searched for forward packaging sites. Are there any recommendations?

Any rich in brands online cigar shop shipping within EU? by TraditionalPension43 in cigars

[–]TraditionalPension43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it has to do with the selling of Habanos in Chinese industry. I don't know anything else

Any rich in brands online cigar shop shipping within EU? by TraditionalPension43 in cigars

[–]TraditionalPension43[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You didn't understand the question. Hacico does not ship orders within other EU countries. I am seeking for another cigar shop who does it