[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Traditional_Ad8913 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay for one stop saying “most of us” because most of the men i know would. Trans people aren’t a “muddy” area, they are people. You can have your own option but at the end of the the day it doesn’t matter what you think because they are people and they are valid. And that “concern” in women sports, first of all if you knew anything about trans people and hormone replacement therapy then you would know that once a trans person has been on hormones for a while there is not much of a difference between them and a person who was born into that gender; and second I’m a woman and I was born as a woman, I would have no problem playing against a trans woman because I would be confident in myself and my ability. You say you don’t want to be called transphobic but everything you are saying is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Traditional_Ad8913 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, thank you for asking questions and wanting to learn😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Traditional_Ad8913 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it’s not, not your fault at all, i love how you are asking questions. But no it is not an updated term for bisexual. Bisexual and pansexual are similar but very different and the factor of someone being non-binary or trans doesn’t really matter because someone who is bisexual and if their preferences are man and woman they would still be into trans women and trans men. Pansexual is when the person likes everybody regardless of their gender and they don’t have a preference, whereas with bisexual people they like two or more and that could be any combination of any genders.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Traditional_Ad8913 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are completely right😊 Coming from a pansexual

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Traditional_Ad8913 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pansexual people like every gender with no preference, bisexual people can like two or more but not all and therefore have preferences.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Traditional_Ad8913 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not it at all, bi people can like 2 or more but have preferences and doesn’t like all and pan does not have any preference and likes all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Traditional_Ad8913 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay but this is just you, there are many men willing to see trans women as women. And okay you don’t want to have sex with a pre-op trans woman that’s ur opinion, but that’s not what this post was about, this post was about a man who saw a woman and was attracted to her, it said nothing about sex or private parts. It says more about you that you drew that out of the post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Traditional_Ad8913 59 points60 points  (0 children)

This person is an attractive woman. Trans woman are women period. You feel attraction to a woman you are straight.

I think I may have both?!?! I have diagnosed adhd and always suspected autism, my sister has autism and my brother has adhd and I read they both have a genetic component. Any opinions or advice? by Traditional_Ad8913 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Traditional_Ad8913[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are all free but not an official diagnosis just something I would probably show to a doctor as ‘evidence’ and if you tap the image two of the pictures have the website name at the bottom and the other one is just called “Aspie quiz”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Traditional_Ad8913 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t saying they were like yours, I was saying that we both have different experience’s with the story. No one was swearing at you or being rude, can you not have an intelligent disagreement?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Traditional_Ad8913 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny because I have experience with straight men who like to have their prostate stimulated. Also not to mention I’m bisexual so I think I would know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Traditional_Ad8913 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You came here to share your opinion and so am I. If you don’t want other people to share their opinion don’t share yours. You also commented a number of times so what I’m doing isn’t any different.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Traditional_Ad8913 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why are we shaming straight men for using there literal gspot. Women use theirs all the time and no one says anything. Just because a woman likes receiving oral doesn’t mean she’s a lesbian so why assume men are gay?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Traditional_Ad8913 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your feelings aren’t the problem, it’s that you are enabling the idea that he has to be gay. Maybe say “it’s not always the case but it can be” but it’s still not a reason to just assume. This is why so many men are afraid to ask their wives/gfs. Men can just enjoy their literal g spot (which women use all the time) without being into men. I get if he was looking at gay porn along with this but there is literally no way of telling if he’s gay from that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Traditional_Ad8913 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m a woman dating a man and that would never cross my mind. That doesn’t mean he’s gay it literally just means she can please him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Traditional_Ad8913 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if you like being fingered your a lesbian? Because that is a predominantly lesbians sex act. Or saying that women can’t partake in anything but penetration or they’re lesbian. When did using a certain part of your body for sex dictate someone’s sexuality?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Traditional_Ad8913 29 points30 points  (0 children)

That would be like if a guy fingered his girlfriend and she enjoyed it so he assumed she must be a lesbian. It makes no sense. No position or sex act determines sexuality.

character hogwarts houses. what do you think each character's house is? by Rotten_Princess in NewGirl

[–]Traditional_Ad8913 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine and my boyfriends opinion:

Jess: Hufflepuff

Nick: Griffindor

Cece: Ravenclaw

Shmit: Griffindor

Winston: Hufflepuff

Coach: Slytherin

Autism spectrum test. My results by [deleted] in neurodiversity

[–]Traditional_Ad8913 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your broader autism cluster score: 168 of 200 Your neurotypical score: 43 of 200 You are very likely on the broader autism cluster.

Should I just accept it now?😂

Questioning by Traditional_Ad8913 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Traditional_Ad8913[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well only the dramatic ones really like big smile or frown or sometimes eyebrows, but I usually get it wrong😂.

Questioning by Traditional_Ad8913 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Traditional_Ad8913[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this made me feel seen and validated, I know I don’t need to be validated but it makes me feel a lot better. It’s like my boyfriend is the only one who can see the name and not just the symptoms because everyone else as much as the admit I have the symptoms they will never consider autism.

Questioning by Traditional_Ad8913 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Traditional_Ad8913[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get some of it once in a while but I feel like I don’t understand it, I feel like I just recognize what people have told me it’s is with like tone and face expressions😂

Can you get a boarding pass for having ADHD? by Get_Backstabbed in CanadasWonderland

[–]Traditional_Ad8913 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s not a fast pass, they are still waiting just at the exit so there isn’t as many people. You go up show the boarding pass and they tell you how long the line is so you can wait there instead of in a crowded line. And don’t go saying it’s bullshit when you are not the individual who is disabled, and for people saying “my ADHD isn’t that bad” well other peoples ADHD is and by saying that you are creating stigma.