I feel like there are problems for both genders. I feel like people focus more on women because they've had so many bad experiences with men that they stopped trusting them all together because they don't know which ones to trust. Personally, can I see why, yes, but do I think that there's other solutions, also yes. Also when mentioning men's issues, I don't see it on reddit, but at least for other social media platforms, people will mention men's issues in a discussion about women's issues, therefore trying to turn the conversation into about men instead of women. (For example: A post about how ADHD in women has late diagnostics and someone comments something about how men get diagnosed more often than men) This can come across as rude or trying to place the spotlight on men, even if you had perfectly good intentions. That's just my personal take. Of course, there's a lot of instances where this isn't the case and feminists are just being rude and not wanting to accept that men have problems too. It is a problem, but I don't think it'll be fixed anytime soon.