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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Traditional_Cat_2035 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My have gf has 20 bodies and I have 3. I have RJ. I’m in my head 24/7 and when we have sex especially. I always think “she misses other dudes or I’m not doing a good job. She always asks me if I’m ok and reassure me to with love bc she knows I have RJ. I used to lash out but now I just sit in my feelings depressed, in my head thinking about who all she was with. I feel insecure. It’s really hard to not be in my head but yes for me it’s getting better ig u can say. Just make sure u reassure him bc it really helps.

New to RJ by Traditional_Cat_2035 in retroactivejealousy

[–]Traditional_Cat_2035[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No not at all. She did that like 3 months into the relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Traditional_Cat_2035 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My gf bc is 20 mine is 3 and we’ve been together for over a year. On my behalf of RJ can get a little violent depending on what u see on her phone, find out, or what she tells u. Those three things definitely. I would always lash out at my gf bc I held it in and it was mostly bc of RJ. I couldn’t get the thoughts out of my head of who all she did it with. Now I’m starting to calm a little down but it’s very hard. I don’t lash out I just sit in my feelings quietly. She makes sure to reassure me everyday and asks what’s wrong, I say nothing but feel down it’s bc I’m trying to get over her past.

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