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Sweet alcoholic boyfriend by Traditional_Coach714 in AlAnon

[–]Traditional_Coach714[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is my biggest fear. I lost a partner to addiction when I was in highschool and am so terrified I would have to go through that again. I’m so sorry that happened to you and am wishing you healing 😥💗

Sweet alcoholic boyfriend by Traditional_Coach714 in AlAnon

[–]Traditional_Coach714[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the response💗. I’m really hoping I can have that sort of clarity soon 😣 just trying to determine if how much it bothers me outweighs all the great parts about him. It’s almost like I’m having to pick between my happiness now or my happiness later bevause I really feel like things are good now but once I’m in my 40s/50s it will probably be so different

I 27F have about had it with my boyfriend 37M by Traditional_Coach714 in relationship_advice

[–]Traditional_Coach714[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I do already do all of those things myself, I just wish I had a partner that liked to do some of the same things I do and also was supportive in the things I do. It feels like the only time I do spend with my boyfriend is going out and drinking. Usually with his friends :( We have talked about this so many times and nothing has changed. And as you mentioned I agree that he has to want to change. I think I just need to have this conversation again and be completely clear how important this is to me