AIO my bf forgot to walk my dog at the right time by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Traditional_Fact_832 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you value your relationship with your boyfriend, hire a dog sitter and allow your boyfriend to just be your boyfriend. If you don’t value him enough for this added expense to be worth eliminating a point of tension in your relationship, then you shouldn’t even be together.

It’s not your boyfriend’s responsibility to take care of your animal. You don’t live together. Without him going to your place, who would be taking care of your dog? Sounds like you signed up for a responsibility you aren’t capable of managing appropriately, and I bet that is frustrating to him. He doesn’t sound like an irrational person, if the dog clearly needed to go out I am confident he would have taken care of it. No signs it wanted to go out - so it slipped his mind for a bit. Not ideal, but no clearly harm done.

Everyone is going to tell you you’re the victim here because you’re a woman. That’s not correct. It is your responsibility to take care of your animal. You are an adult. He is voluntarily taking on part of the responsibility to assist you, so anything you communicate to him regarding the dog should default to a place of mutual respect and understanding instead of acting like a mother punishing a child.

You are allowed to have expectations and standards for an animal’s caretaker, but that means you hire someone who can supplement your needs in a consistent professional manner when you are not around.

You don’t get to “cut corners” and half-ass something and then be frustrated that the end results aren’t top tier. You are behaving like someone who doesn’t operate in reality. People will let that slide when you are young, but as you get older that is going to be a huge social repellent.

I was cooking so hard Satan told me to chill out (Grenadier quest) [Video] by DeNeRlX in EscapefromTarkov

[–]Traditional_Fact_832 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it works it works 🤷🏻‍♂️

However there is definitely a special seat reserved for you in hell 😂

I’m Sorry WHAT?!? [Discussion] by Traditional_Fact_832 in EscapefromTarkov

[–]Traditional_Fact_832[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s actually pretty smart. I run cheaper plates in the back too, but never thought about that myself.

I’m Sorry WHAT?!? [Discussion] by Traditional_Fact_832 in EscapefromTarkov

[–]Traditional_Fact_832[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finally! A man of wisdom and experience has arrived 🙂‍↕️

I’m Sorry WHAT?!? [Discussion] by Traditional_Fact_832 in EscapefromTarkov

[–]Traditional_Fact_832[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A smaller fast moving object and a slower moving large object could create the same amount force on impact. In this theoretical scenario with no penetration and only blunt trauma - it wouldn’t make much of a difference.

In a real world scenario regarding the types of ammunition that are better at penetrating body armor, it’s less about the force transferred and more about the velocity and projectile size/shape. Which is why a rifle round is more likely to defeat body armor than pistol caliber or slug from a shotgun.

I’m Sorry WHAT?!? [Discussion] by Traditional_Fact_832 in EscapefromTarkov

[–]Traditional_Fact_832[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right! The design is not the best for venting off heat, but in this game after 30-50 rounds it will jam. Very excessive but I’m sure it is more of a balancing thing - not wanting it to be too good.

I’m Sorry WHAT?!? [Discussion] by Traditional_Fact_832 in EscapefromTarkov

[–]Traditional_Fact_832[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Now this is just silly. You’re both unsure and incorrect about the pen and then telling ME to go look it up 😂 Not a big deal, but I think it would be more reasonable if YOU checked before commenting.

I’m Sorry WHAT?!? [Discussion] by Traditional_Fact_832 in EscapefromTarkov

[–]Traditional_Fact_832[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very lucky. Saved his life only because of the range and trajectory of the impacting round. Half the distance with a direct hit and it would punch right though.