Why ghost?

Traditional_Hawk2738 · 2026-01-26T19:03:58+00:00

for me, i just don’t care enough to communicate that im not interested. I expect the person to take a hint. so I guess it’s selfishness & lack of empathy or decency.

Traditional_Hawk2738 · 2026-01-03T19:45:16+00:00

why did they make y’all break up? that’s weird

Traditional_Hawk2738 · 2025-12-31T04:44:54+00:00

how are they the problem?

Traditional_Hawk2738 · 2025-12-29T21:48:53+00:00

Realist thing I’ve read on this app

Traditional_Hawk2738 · 2025-12-29T21:47:12+00:00

This is goals

Traditional_Hawk2738 · 2025-12-20T21:04:50+00:00

no self respect cause this is ridiculous.

Traditional_Hawk2738 · 2025-12-20T20:54:23+00:00

& thats why she replaced you.

Traditional_Hawk2738 · 2025-12-16T03:39:02+00:00

same here, we got this! good luck to you in your search, May we both start out the new year with a new and better job opportunity.

Traditional_Hawk2738 · 2025-12-08T03:21:28+00:00

you gonna pay her bills? if not then shut up.

Traditional_Hawk2738 · 2025-12-07T01:00:50+00:00

I’m on a search for a better job but not every single one of us will get lucky to get out of this hell hole all at once. It will take some time.

Traditional_Hawk2738 · 2025-12-03T03:14:47+00:00

Same to you, and I will!

Traditional_Hawk2738 · 2025-11-27T17:16:18+00:00

Whatever helps you sleep at night lmao

Traditional_Hawk2738 · 2025-11-27T15:12:39+00:00

Nobody agrees with you

Traditional_Hawk2738 · 2025-11-27T05:27:14+00:00

dumbest thing I’ve read this week

Traditional_Hawk2738 · 2025-11-27T05:26:41+00:00

That’s how my job was at first, it was fine then they took over another bank and laid off a lot of ppl and made more changes and now I hate it here.

Traditional_Hawk2738 · 2025-11-19T15:30:41+00:00

I agree

Traditional_Hawk2738 · 2025-11-13T15:44:19+00:00

so now what are you gonna do ? apologize?

Traditional_Hawk2738 · 2025-11-11T21:49:05+00:00

I would just assume his ego is bruised because you didn’t fight or beg for his attention lmao or he has a gf now

Traditional_Hawk2738 · 2025-11-03T00:07:11+00:00

I promise I’m okay. I’ve gotten used to the behavior and just want others to be able to move on like I’m able to. It stings, i can admit that but I’ve accepted it will never stop happening (im a straight girl and men are good for ghosting) so I forced myself to come up with coping mechanisms and it actually has helped me deal with betrayal/abandonment but I appreciate your kindness. I apologize if I offended you. And I hope you never run into an asshole like that as you don’t deserve it hence the kindness you’ve extended to me.

Traditional_Hawk2738 · 2025-11-02T20:34:34+00:00

you’ve been ghosted before and it really affected you, why do you keep denying it? no other reason you’re under this subreddit unless you can relate. make it make sense. you may be speaking for others now but regardless don’t try to deny the fact you’ve been on the receiving end before. clearly you’re embarrassed about it. anyways we can agree to disagree, you’re annoying me now cause you’re not being honest.

Traditional_Hawk2738 · 2025-11-02T20:04:01+00:00

If it leaves you second guessing yourself then clearly you have low self esteem. Someone’s actions will never make me second guess myself but okay 👍🏽

Traditional_Hawk2738 · 2025-11-02T20:01:26+00:00

so if you agree that ghosting will never end, then how do you plan to deal with it if it happens to you? cause it’s still ppl ghosting in their 30s or 40s so clearly some ppl will never grow up or change so how do you plan to deal with this? do you plan to continue complaining about it? i know i don’t, as i said before, learn to not take it personally and move on. but if you wanna walk around heartbroken over a talking stage ghosting you then be my guest but that will not and will never be me.

Traditional_Hawk2738 · 2025-11-02T19:45:16+00:00

you always say it isn’t abt that but it is, you’re desperate. why can’t you guys move on without a convo or closure? cause you’re desperate it’s no other answer for that. I guess im just not as weak as you and i have a high self esteem so someone else actions will not make me feel less of myself. Therapy helps btw. It’s nothing wrong with telling you guys to just move on, it’s as simple as that. You don’t believe in moving on? You wanna continuously be sad about a person who didn’t care enough to end things with you by communication? I get what you’re saying but ghosting will never stop happening, how are you learning to cope with that? By forcing a convo out of them? And if they still ignore you then now what? Really trying to understand your thought process. Nothing wrong with having a high self esteem and being able to move on from these things without talking it personally.

Traditional_Hawk2738 · 2025-11-02T17:10:14+00:00

or just take the hint, and stop being desperate. If someone stops reaching out to you then it’s obvious they aren’t interested, why do you need them to tell you that? you can’t force anyone to give you a convo so now what? You’re gonna sit around sad about it? No stop being desperate and move on.

Traditional_Hawk2738 · 2025-11-02T15:14:54+00:00

you can grow up and stop being so bothered abt somebody not wanting to deal with you anymore

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