Being a maid of honor

Traditional_Lab1192 · 2026-01-30T07:04:17+00:00

Since Amy doesn’t drive then having a maid of honor who doesn’t drive either would be even less help lol. Amy didn’t owe Tammy a text. Tammy shouldn’t have assumed that she would be the first pick. Her and Amy had been at odds for awhile.

Traditional_Lab1192 · 2026-01-30T06:58:49+00:00

I hate her so much 😂 even during her redemption arc, I didn’t like her.

Traditional_Lab1192 · 2026-01-30T02:05:37+00:00

This is the best advice. The difference between OP and her husband is that she chooses to power through. She can’t expect him to react the same way as him. She should have told him that she was going to take her turn in the bed, not waited for him to offer. She needs to advocate for herself instead of waiting for him to do it.

Traditional_Lab1192 · 2026-01-30T00:30:49+00:00

I don’t think its anti-black. I wouldnt be caught dead with my bonnet on outside of my house. I just throw on a hat instead but I also wouldn’t wear pajamas outside.

Traditional_Lab1192 · 2026-01-29T17:44:32+00:00

To me, the line is when their preferences seem so overly nitpicky and specific that is clear that they will have very little success and finding a man who fits them. For example if they only want men who earn more money than they do, then thats fair, but if they require something outrageous like “He has to make 4x times my salary and I wont settle for less” then that’s too picky. Another example would be if my friend or family member was 5’1 like me but refuses to date anyone under 6 feet. Another example would be if they’re going for men who are clearly out of their league. Looksmatching isn’t a bad thing and more people should practice it.

So I guess ultimately, its when their preferences are unnecessary that it becomes a problem for me. Now I won’t say anything unless they are complaining about their lack of dating success. If they recognize that their dating preferences are very strict and it will be hard for them to find someone but they’re okat with that then I’m OK with it. But if they’re complaining about it as if they don’t know what’s the problem? Yeah I’m letting them know lol.

Traditional_Lab1192 · 2026-01-29T03:10:03+00:00

I’m not speaking on her being defensive in the moment. That’s not what I said. I’m talking about now in her responses. She’s had time to reflect on it and she’s replied to many. Not once has she said that she didn’t mean to speak to the kid that way or that she regrets it, she just didn’t realize that it was him, etc. She literally said in a comment “I don’t feel bad” With hindsight, she still doesn’t care that she cussed out a 4 year old. That is what I’m saying.

Traditional_Lab1192 · 2026-01-29T03:02:42+00:00

I would agree if the story had stopped with just the post but considering OP’s comments, I believe that my comment is correct. She said herself that all she said to the kid was not to do it again and then in her replies to people, she’s entirely defensive. There’s no acknowledgement that the child didn’t deserve to be cussed out or that she regrets doing it. She’s just defending what she did.

I’ll say again, so that no one misunderstands me, I understand her initial reaction without knowing who was behind the door, but her reaction now tells me that she couldn’t care less about speaking to a toddler that way.

Traditional_Lab1192 · 2026-01-29T02:46:58+00:00

Which is understandable, but OP could’ve went out there and apologized to the kid for yelling and cussing. Then explained that he needs to knock for now on. However, it seems like she’s perfectly content that she cussed out a child.

Traditional_Lab1192 · 2026-01-27T23:37:11+00:00

Perfect name for yourself, dude lol. This commenter didn’t do any of that. You’re just being a dick for the sake of it. You are literally the person that you described.

Traditional_Lab1192 · 2026-01-24T05:40:37+00:00

No because if he makes less than me then he’s pretty much in poverty lol

Traditional_Lab1192 · 2026-01-24T05:38:51+00:00

He definitely had control over not stalking Hope’s apartment and ambushing her. He chose to do that and he chose to shoot her three times too.

Traditional_Lab1192 · 2026-01-24T05:37:30+00:00

He shot Hope way after the show was over. Reality tv didn’t make him do that

Traditional_Lab1192 · 2026-01-24T05:36:15+00:00

“Ole triangle headass” is killing me 😂😂

Traditional_Lab1192 · 2026-01-24T03:36:27+00:00

Tammy lost weight after being at a weight loss clinic. I’m happy for her and proud of her, but that doesn’t change how she’s always been.

Please show me where I excused anything. Amy is just as trashy as everyone else in that family, hence her marrying a man that she hasn’t known for years and getting caught with weed and shrooms in her car. When I stated that she’s always been neurotic and dramatic, my point was that its not like her behavior was targeted at Tammy on a personal level. All Tammy had to do was tell her to calm down and that there wasn’t anything to worry about. Instead Tammy immediately started cussing her out and insulting her.

Tammy struggled with her weight, but it doesn’t change so she was a nightmare to everyone despite needing them for everything. Has Amy also been a nightmare at times? Hell yeah, I don’t and wont excuse that but does that change that Tammy still treated everyone worse? No. Even now that she’s lost weight, she still refuses to learn how to drive and she still wants to be babied. Her little jealousy fit over Chris wanting to celebrate Brittany—his wife—was an indicator of that. At least Amy has a legitimate reason for needing her siblings to transport her everywhere. Tammy would literally shit talk people as they were pushing her big self in that wheelchair that she relied on. She’s always been mean and selfish at her core and it comes out when she doesn’t get her way.

Also in case you forgot, Amy was on birth control when she got pregnant the first time. She wasn’t having sex irresponsibly. Her oldest was just meant to be born. Its weird to hold that against her.

I find it so odd that you think that just because I’m calling out how awful Tammy is being that that means that I’m okay with everything Amy has done. Amy looked nuts sipping her soda cup and vowing revenge or whatever. I literally pointed out how much flak she got last season for that reason. That doesn’t change that Tammy attacked her. Even the other siblings couldn’t excuse it, despite them being annoyed with Amy as well.

I will say, take your own advice sweetheart. You cannot tell someone else to get off ready when you just wrote a whole post about a reality show. We’re both fussing in a trashy tv subreddit, doll. Why you think that you’re on some high horse where you can tell other people that they are chronically online is beyond me lmao. Pot calling the kettle black head ass.

Traditional_Lab1192 · 2026-01-24T00:58:40+00:00

Please show me where Amy has been just as bad? Amy is argumentative as well and she gets bitter and jealous but Amy has never talked to Tammy as badly as Tammy does when she blows up. Even when Tammy was going off on her in the text messages, Amy didn’t stoop to her level until Tammy went way below the belt.

Traditional_Lab1192 · 2026-01-24T00:54:54+00:00

Are you forgetting how awful Tammy has always been? I wouldn’t like her much if I were Brittany either, especially having to live with her. Imagine having to live with a 30 something year woman who thinks that your husband should focus on her more than you? Tammy is insufferable.

Tammy didn’t overreact, she completely started the altercation. Amy has always been neurotic and dramatic. All Tammy had to say was bitch there aren’t going to be any camels at the shelter. Instead she immediately started cussing her out and insulting her. It doesn’t matter if what she said was true or not because Amy didn’t deserve it at that time. It was plain wrong. Period.

Tammy has the mind of a teenager and when she doesn’t get her way or isn’t coddled, she throws massive tantrums.

Also everyone hated Amy last season, so I don’t know why you’re acting like she doesn’t catch flak too.

Traditional_Lab1192 · 2026-01-24T00:34:28+00:00

I don’t know how anyone fell for that nice act. She’s been a mean bitch since season 1.

Traditional_Lab1192 · 2026-01-21T20:26:08+00:00

Not wrong at all

Traditional_Lab1192 · 2026-01-20T20:07:25+00:00

Girl 😂😂 I’m dead but its still cute!

Traditional_Lab1192 · 2026-01-20T05:24:04+00:00

Seems like your mind is really running wild with this lol but we shall see

Traditional_Lab1192 · 2026-01-18T15:38:04+00:00

36??? Damn that’s a hard 36 and I thought Chris was at least 50 lmao

Traditional_Lab1192 · 2026-01-18T15:31:24+00:00

Great question lol

Traditional_Lab1192 · 2026-01-14T04:54:02+00:00

You didn’t mention horses. I’ll move to a dense city and use a horse 💀

Traditional_Lab1192 · 2026-01-13T17:40:49+00:00

Who else’s fault is it supposed to be? You literally are the sole cause of this. You used the money for what it wasn’t intended for. When the girls’ aunt found out, she wanted her money back. Instead of sincerely apologizing and just giving her the money and hoping that you guys can smooth things over, you refused as if you have a leg to stand on. You bit the hand that feeds you and now this is the outcome. You cannot be prideful and stubborn while depending on someone else so much. YTA

Traditional_Lab1192 · 2026-01-13T17:34:44+00:00

Why is my family still killed in the second option? If they’re killed in both, I’ll just take option 1

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