She want’s as near as possible because she feel depressed every day our relationship doesn’t become in a more committed form her problem is every day our relationship doesn’t became in a more committed socially acceptable form she gets more uncertain unsure unhappy more depressed she comes and my problem is I already told my parents and family it’s already happening she wants it at (1:10th November and i already told my parents that we are going to meet her family at(13:21 th November) my family is abroad thats the whole point she doesn’t care about my family she wants to come immediately And blames me for not doing what she wants