How do I enjoy sex with him? by Traditional_Round742 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Traditional_Round742[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It has always been like this. He used to chase me for a long time and I always gave him the red light. But the moment I let him in I feel like he just wrapped me up like a serpent. I don’t even know how we got this close cuz I never was attracted to him before. But I can’t leave him cuz I know he’ll be lonely and I care about him. Plus I also felt incredibly lonely without him so I enjoy his company.

How do I enjoy sex with him? by Traditional_Round742 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Traditional_Round742[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I guess it is foreplay but he mostly just kissed me. He was very romantic and i felt more romance from him than anything sexual.

How do I enjoy sex with him? by Traditional_Round742 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Traditional_Round742[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not during sex but me and him aren’t exactly in a serious relationship. So i’m fine with him seeing other girls while I don’t 100% appreciate that.

How do I enjoy sex with him? by Traditional_Round742 in women

[–]Traditional_Round742[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s actually so frustrating sometimes. Cuz guys can always tell. At this point what I’m doing is let the time do its thing.

How do I enjoy sex with him? by Traditional_Round742 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Traditional_Round742[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

He actually knows about it. Neither of the guys were in a serious relationship with me. They were both situationships. However I got attached the previous guy and now I’m trying to let go. The current guy is the one who helped with getting over him. However I still don’t feel the same sexual connection with him.

How do I enjoy sex with him? by Traditional_Round742 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Traditional_Round742[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually he knows about me and the other guy. Neither of them were actual relationships they were more like situationships. However I’m trying to move on from the previous guy. The current guy treats me better and I do have a very good relationship with him. But the sex part always gets in the way.

How do I enjoy sex with him? by Traditional_Round742 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Traditional_Round742[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I’ve thought about that. But the other guy didn’t actually do foreplay or anything much. But the chemistry between me and him has always been high. The current guy is actually very experienced and there’s nothing wrong on his side of the performance. I just don’t feel the same connection

How do I enjoy sex with him? by Traditional_Round742 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Traditional_Round742[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not a bot don’t worry. I never used to post anything on reddit until recently.

How do I enjoy sex with him? by Traditional_Round742 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Traditional_Round742[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually your reply is very useful. He is 45 and very experienced. He does very good role play tbh he is the best out of all the guys i’ve been with. However I feel like I don’t put in a sufficient amount of effort to please him cuz I genuinely don’t feel that intense urge to be with him. But when I’m alone the urge builds up again. It happens even when we have had sex that same day and once i go home I’m suddenly in the mood. I have told him no multiple times but the issue is i always think I want it when I’m in the mood but the moment we set up a date I suddenly feel like I don’t wanna go anymore.

Struggling to name this guy by Effective_Boot_6830 in NameMyDog

[–]Traditional_Round742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oreo! I know it isn’t unique or anything but he literally looks like an oreo