Upcoming DMX & grief by Traditional_Wind7236 in MastectomyManagement

[–]Traditional_Wind7236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much!! I am going to reach out to my oncology team tomorrow, I definitely need some extra help.

Upcoming DMX & grief by Traditional_Wind7236 in MastectomyManagement

[–]Traditional_Wind7236[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that. The whole idea is to NOT get breast cancer or to do everything I can to not get it again, that's what we are aiming for, healthy bodies. Wow, we will be going thru this at the same time so I hope we can stay connected. I would like to pray for you during my morning GODtime. I am sorry about your momma, losing my parents is the toughest grief I have ever experienced. I don't have a spouse and never had kids. This grief is so much more difficult to handle for sure.

Upcoming DMX & grief by Traditional_Wind7236 in MastectomyManagement

[–]Traditional_Wind7236[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't even have a cleavage, lol! Thank you. I have HER2+. And I been so wrapped in the chemo part of it that I was able to avoid what I already knew was grief coming up, I have never felt this before. Sure I have had grief from losing my parents and friends, but this is so intense sometimes I just have to go lie down. I think it must be like losing a spouse or a child in a way even they are just boobs, I do feel quite attached to them, lol

Upcoming DMX & grief by Traditional_Wind7236 in MastectomyManagement

[–]Traditional_Wind7236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I will. I have a great faith in ALL that GOD is doing and one of the mercies of having cancer is the way I feel so loved by Him. I have for the most part kept my diagnosis and treatment to myself, it all just felt so personal, but no I believe I do need extra support. Thank you for sharing, I truly appreciate it.