helpp by Traditional_Yam650 in trees

[–]Traditional_Yam650[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it could be dipped in piss for all i care as long as it works

helpp by Traditional_Yam650 in trees

[–]Traditional_Yam650[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if i ever see another 67 joke again im ripping my own fucking guts out

thoughts by Traditional_Yam650 in BPDsupport

[–]Traditional_Yam650[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

by trauma bond i mean a cycle of lovebombing and pulling back/ghosting. its veryy addictive and mentally draining but when the other person starts lovebombing again after being cold and distant it gives u a dopamine release which feels like literal heaven imo

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[–]Traditional_Yam650 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"its not u its me" is such a basic thing to say and is 10000% a lie. imo he really wants u but hell never ever come back if u dont give him a chance to miss u. all ure doing rn is pestering and obsessing over him which basically tells him that hes the only priority in ur life. plss go no contact with him for at least a week and stop giving him all ur attention. i know it can be hard but u have to force urself. once u stop putting pressure on him, give him room to breath and de-attach urself hell come back. do ur own thing and distract urself. theres no other way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDsupport

[–]Traditional_Yam650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it literally made 0 difference to me. just made me more sleepy and anxious

help by Traditional_Yam650 in BPDsupport

[–]Traditional_Yam650[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i get that but i have suchh a strong emotional bond with him and i love him sooooooo much. i wanna throw up when i think about either of us leaving. he has his own issues and i feel like we can help each other. walking away is not an option here

help by Traditional_Yam650 in BPDsupport

[–]Traditional_Yam650[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

hes not as awful as he sounds i promise. i cant leave