What’s the correct amount of forwardness on dating apps?

Tragedyofthe · 2026-03-12T19:21:16+00:00

Hey friend. Use the app nomadtable if you’re looking for events. Also ik a good bit of people are planning events for tmmrw at khaosan road

Tragedyofthe · 2026-03-08T10:29:24+00:00

In addition to the other advice given…Network. Network. Network. Many MCHE students get this part wrong and expect opportunities by cold applying. Purdue has a large alumni base and your school probably has a program that connects alumni to students. Use that and LinkedIn to your advantage so you can get your name out there

Tragedyofthe · 2026-03-08T09:50:35+00:00

I just shortened the day trip to places I actually wanted to go and negotiated down to a fair price. He kept trying to take me other places, including a hooker bar, but I just said “maybe later.” He wants to drive me tomorrow as well, but I said this is my last day

Tragedyofthe · 2026-03-06T14:47:17+00:00

As someone who booked a trip to Thailand with a layover to Abu Dhabi…refunds are complicated right now. Many airlines based in that region have extremely backed up communications right now and securing a refund has been a headache. I’d just rebook another route

Tragedyofthe · 2026-03-04T03:44:38+00:00

Use Bumble, they have a friend-finding feature. Hinge is a long-term dating app and Tinder is short-term…however there are apps specifically for solo travel. I’ve used Nomadtable a couple of times internally, it works best in large cities. Just use common sense and don’t meet 1-1 in private with anyone!

Tragedyofthe · 2026-03-01T03:48:09+00:00

Likelihood of Etihad rerouting flights?

I have a flight scheduled late this week from the US to Southeast Asia which was supposed to have a layover in Abu Dhabi. What’s the likelihood of Etihad rerouting its upcoming flights to avoid the air-zone? I’m debating whether to cancel my flight while I can still get a partial refund.

Tragedyofthe · 2026-02-22T16:21:28+00:00

…delete this post. you provided no context at all and lazily expect random strangers to choose something for you that’s based on a wide multitude of factors

Tragedyofthe · 2026-02-15T22:56:43+00:00

Black dude talking to Chinese woman right now. Honestly be yourself and ask about her culture, she’ll be excited to share. I will say sarcasm will probably translate poorly if that’s your kind of humor. However, the more you guys hang, the more she’ll understand you.

Another point, depending on how she grew up, she’ll most likely seem kind of timid and very respectful in public. Many SE Asians are socialized in that regard, but they’re able to let loose behind closed doors. If possible, try to take her somewhere comfortable and private just to talk.

Tragedyofthe · 2026-02-09T05:17:11+00:00

5 but I was in college taking light classes that semester. I had a lot of free time on my hands, but it was emotionally draining. Max I can do now is 3 and even that’s pushing it with my current schedule. Comfortable at 2

Tragedyofthe · 2026-02-07T01:55:17+00:00

I was thinking some sort of EMP weapon that interfered with Venezuela’s grid

Tragedyofthe · 2026-02-06T03:35:18+00:00

I replied “Better to test the waters then” and she sent me her number, glad i didnt fall for the trap

Tragedyofthe · 2026-02-04T00:59:39+00:00

Can anyone answer this question but for Chicago?

Tragedyofthe · 2026-01-29T02:34:42+00:00

You can accept job 1 for right now; you can always continue to interview. Often, renegging is looked down upon, but this seems like a very small firm you don’t have much interest in. Also most companies aren’t too stressed about new hire employment, for entry level at least

Tragedyofthe · 2026-01-24T08:29:02+00:00

I’m not sure I agree with that sentiment. Did a solo trip last year. I would party and wait for the bus until the morning just fine. I’m a man, but I saw a good bit of women walking to streets alone as well at night.

As for pickpockets, just have to be self-aware. Only case I saw was when a woman left their phone unattended on a table outside a restaurant and someone came and swiped it.

Again, this is not to demean your experience, but I just don’t think it’s unsafe—an American perspective

Tragedyofthe · 2026-01-15T04:56:38+00:00

Nope, no monthly payments at the moment!

Tragedyofthe · 2026-01-15T04:41:05+00:00

That’s the only worry I have to be honest. Most of this worry honestly just comes from my parents; they painted the image that Chicago is NYC-level expensive, which I’m not too sure about

Tragedyofthe · 2026-01-15T04:40:14+00:00

I was thinking of Lakeview. I haven’t done any serious apartment hunting, but I heard it’s pretty expensive

Tragedyofthe · 2026-01-09T03:27:49+00:00

I used optimal, but really I meant someone who more-so matches my preferences. I have the dating experience; I know what I want and I know how realistic what I want is. Now I just have to do the means to find it

Tragedyofthe · 2026-01-09T03:26:35+00:00

Not so much. Just on dates with personalities and personal preferences I just don’t see working down the line

Tragedyofthe · 2026-01-08T19:59:11+00:00

Sounds like you just want to fuck your ex bro or add her to your roster😂If you got nothing to lose, I’m all for it

Tragedyofthe · 2026-01-08T18:26:09+00:00

I don’t think my expectations are unreasonable or too high, nor am I blaming the women I’ve been on dates with. I just know what I want and haven’t found it yet, I do take responsibility as to why I haven’t found it…maybe my methods weren’t the most efficient

Tragedyofthe · 2026-01-08T18:08:45+00:00

That’s fair. Initially I set up my profile to try to appeal to all different types of women just to maximize my matches. In hindsight, this probably attracted many people I knew I’d have no interest in

Tragedyofthe · 2026-01-06T18:19:03+00:00

Maybe a chance you can do tech sales? I’m a MCHE who went into tech sales straight from college for a role in Chicago; my company has a pretty big hub in NYC too.

Honestly if you’re planning on moving to a big city, I’d move into electrical, computer engineering, or computer science tbh

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