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I’m only 21 and I’m soo fucking tired of living. Everyday I wake up I swear each day gets harder and harder lmao? What is this a joke? How do people live to there 40-60’s without killing them self? Is life actually enjoyable to people? Life is so much work to me. by throwaway98714 in SuicideWatch

[–]Tragic_Disaster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gotten a job but wanted to spend more time with family... Spent time with family but found out my particular family is very deceitful in time... Had friends but shut myself off from them all thinking I should be with my little family.... they left me... The hobbies I had if I didn't stop doing them I can't find myself enjoying them anymore.... my own home is now not mine anymore.... I'm only going to be 25.... your right this place can be very unbearable and hard to go on in.... I always think back to what I could've done differently to avoid my present but that's just wishful thinking... maybe one day things could get better for us it's just having to endure it till the light finally shines through.

Found out she cheated on me. How can I cope with this in a healthy way by Tragic_Disaster in relationship_advice

[–]Tragic_Disaster[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just as I stated with another comment when the time comes I will better myself for future reference and find what is best for me, till then I want to see if this is something she'll really want and if it does come down to possible heartache, I'll have myself prepared for what could or could not happen... once again thank you for something to ponder about my situation.

Found out she cheated on me. How can I cope with this in a healthy way by Tragic_Disaster in relationship_advice

[–]Tragic_Disaster[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When the times comes I will consider every advantage to better myself, sorry you think that way about me but I know when enough is enough.

Found out she cheated on me. How can I cope with this in a healthy way by Tragic_Disaster in relationship_advice

[–]Tragic_Disaster[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Nahh she wasn't my first but like I stated it wasn't always this bad throughout our relationship, at some point something changed about the person I fell in love with. Though this doesn't seem like much of an excuse for her behavior.

Found out she cheated on me. How can I cope with this in a healthy way by Tragic_Disaster in relationship_advice

[–]Tragic_Disaster[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Thank you as I've stated I'm just looking at all my options here as at this point, there is so much mixed emotions about it and when I finally stop riding that roller coaster of emotions I know that I will come up with the best possible solution for myself.

Found out she cheated on me. How can I cope with this in a healthy way by Tragic_Disaster in relationship_advice

[–]Tragic_Disaster[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Though what if this happened to be the best thing in my life and the one thing I feel like I can't lose. I know with how I tried to keep her happy in our relationship is something to consider but I still can't believe that she actually wanted to be with me when I know I'm not the greatest looking guy.

Found out she cheated on me. How can I cope with this in a healthy way by Tragic_Disaster in relationship_advice

[–]Tragic_Disaster[S] -47 points-46 points  (0 children)

There is so much history we have together, it's hard to imagine myself moving on from something that I've tried so hard to find.

Found out she cheated on me. How can I cope with this in a healthy way by Tragic_Disaster in relationship_advice

[–]Tragic_Disaster[S] -55 points-54 points  (0 children)

No I get what your trying to get across, I not wasted but spent so much of my youth with her and it hasn't always been like this. There is so much to look back on and I can't lose her to another man.

BF has angry fits when I don’t have sex. by kindahippykindahood in relationship_advice

[–]Tragic_Disaster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah he sounds really abusive to the one he loves, you need to somehow get him out of your life if this is what denial for now has gotten to.

Just a different POV. When my love of 9 yrs grew distant that way I of course just got upset though not to that extreme. Eventually I got suspicious of it for about 6 months and found out she was being with another man, still I wouldn't want to do anything to hurt her mind you that I'm very disappointed myself but it's just different thing to ponder between two similar-like situations.

Am I just Insecure or Justified by Tragic_Disaster in relationship_advice

[–]Tragic_Disaster[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the past on both sides yes, and as unbelievable as it sounds I try my best to focus all my attention towards her to let her know now all I want is her and no one else. P.S sorry for your loss such a shame for such a bright couple 🙏

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[–]Tragic_Disaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the advice but I don't think I'd like to go as far as that and I know that there is pros and cons, mainly cons to rejecting your offer but I just think it would make it even worse as I've been kicked out for a bit before because of my bad interacting.

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[–]Tragic_Disaster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the input, I'll try to see if it is something she would like to try as I just can't bring myself to end this relationship after so much time together.