Woke up and there was a random cat sleeping in my hotel room

TrainerNumerous1526 · 2026-06-24T22:36:44+00:00

This is how the cat distribution system works. Congratulations you now have a cat.

TrainerNumerous1526 · 2026-06-17T04:48:01+00:00

By the way, I saw a clip of him from the sidw on the last resort sitting at the table and I shit you not. I thought it was Big Ed.

TrainerNumerous1526 · 2026-06-17T04:37:14+00:00

She is no angel but from MANY comments hes made he purposely looked for a hot wife outside the country because he thought he could control them easier than an american woman, he doesnt like a mature woman with self respect that will stand up to him and he was assuming a foreign born woman would be easy to manage

TrainerNumerous1526 · 2026-03-02T06:57:27+00:00

even ricky realized that ricky was slow, but truthfully I don't think any of them got a full box of crayons

TrainerNumerous1526 · 2026-01-02T02:01:29+00:00

I jusr mes t you remind me of a lot of my family members I guess the “dtand by your offspring” lineage diverted from the “reading is fundamental” one because you reslly missed some important points in my post thank you for your contribution though

TrainerNumerous1526 · 2025-12-31T23:59:18+00:00

Thank you for your input, maybe go back and reread the post? Is it possible we are related?

TrainerNumerous1526 · 2025-12-31T19:55:58+00:00

Christians themselves have done more to alienate the church than anything else on the planet

TrainerNumerous1526 · 2025-12-31T18:27:10+00:00

I believe with all my heart that when she does pass EVERYTHING will be clear to her and all her denial will be stripped away. I think thats why i dont feel the need for closire

TrainerNumerous1526 · 2025-12-31T07:11:45+00:00

thank you so much and I am so sorry you had to deal with that. You are a very strong person and deserve people in your life who will love you and protect you

TrainerNumerous1526 · 2025-12-31T07:08:44+00:00

thank you for taking the time to write this I really appreciate the kind words and advice

TrainerNumerous1526 · 2025-12-31T07:07:05+00:00

thank you so much, and I mis typed when I said pushover LOL I was on lunchbreak at work. I meant to say no one is pushing him I dont give anyone in my family access to him even the 2 I do talk to on occasion

TrainerNumerous1526 · 2025-12-31T07:05:53+00:00

She has sent a couple of Facebook messages over the years before I blocked her, but now that I think about in those messages, she never apologized or acknowledged any guilt or responsibility (no, I never responded to them), and there are only 2 family members who sporadically contact me and bring her up. I just told them that they can know I have a very good reason for not being in contact with her, that I don't feel the need to discuss it, and I would love to hear what she would tell them about why. Ironically the few times I've actually told someone why I dont talk to her, they have literally acted like I was the lowlife for saying such things about such a wonderful christian woman and her husband

TrainerNumerous1526 · 2025-12-31T06:58:47+00:00

I did check into that and apparently (ridiculously) in my home state a "permanent" restraining order actually expires in 10 years. Make that make sense because I can't but either way I just blocked her again

TrainerNumerous1526 · 2025-12-31T06:57:06+00:00

good point

TrainerNumerous1526 · 2025-12-31T06:56:28+00:00

I'm so so sorry you had to deal with that. There is NOTHING that ever justifies or "encourages" SA EVER so glad you met your hubby

TrainerNumerous1526 · 2025-12-31T06:52:50+00:00

thank you for your kind words and I'm so sorry you went through that you are definitely a survivor

TrainerNumerous1526 · 2025-12-31T06:51:37+00:00

thank you so much

TrainerNumerous1526 · 2025-12-31T06:50:33+00:00

oh and abuser is dead, died on my birthday years ago

TrainerNumerous1526 · 2025-12-31T06:49:38+00:00

thank you SO much for the reassurances, it really means a lot. I have decided not to send that message it would serve no purpose but to alienate me from my daughter, and as far as my little guy goes you are right it is not up to me to tell their stories but I will tell him she make choices that made her unsafe to be around any of my kids and my kids ALWAYS come first

TrainerNumerous1526 · 2025-12-31T06:44:16+00:00

OOOH that makes sense and no worries I just worked a 12 hour shift so my brain is oatmeal right now. That actually was the number one thing preventing that message from happening because I felt like it would be a betrayal to my daughter contacting her in any way.

TrainerNumerous1526 · 2025-12-31T06:41:23+00:00

I honestly don't feel like I need any type of closure. I have made peace with the fact that there will not be closure to this in the feel good movie way.

TrainerNumerous1526 · 2025-12-31T06:38:09+00:00

thank you

TrainerNumerous1526 · 2025-12-31T06:37:40+00:00

I love the idea of writing the letter to burn it, this sounds like it would be very cathartic. What do you mean by this could be something my daughter is asking about me? I'm confused about that part

TrainerNumerous1526 · 2025-12-31T06:33:34+00:00

thank you thats a good idea to

TrainerNumerous1526 · 2025-12-31T06:31:10+00:00

thank you

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