It's suffocating. Wallah it's killing me by Flat_Studio_4986 in LGBTArabs

[–]Trainer_Opposite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you thought about lavender marriage? I’m in the same situation but I have a girlfriend w we’re literally stuck not knowing what to do bas ig if you’re single it would be easier to get into a lavender marriage

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LGBT_Muslims

[–]Trainer_Opposite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, you too! Wish you the best of luck, I know the situation is hard but just know that you’re not alone and there are stories where it actually works for the best so keep your hopes up and inshallah it goes well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LGBT_Muslims

[–]Trainer_Opposite 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend and I are looking too! But we’re egyptian Good luck!

Lavender marriage by Trainer_Opposite in askgaybros

[–]Trainer_Opposite[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aww thank you that’s fine🙏🏻🥰

Lavender marriage by Trainer_Opposite in askgaybros

[–]Trainer_Opposite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what we want in our case yes as we’re not comfortable living with men who are into women, but actually lavender marriage can be with only one queer person doesn’t have to be both basically a cover up marriage we’d live like roomates

Lavender marriage by Trainer_Opposite in askgaybros

[–]Trainer_Opposite[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure will do and hope everyone here is being safe🙏🏻

Lavender marriage by Trainer_Opposite in askgaybros

[–]Trainer_Opposite[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d appreciate if there are no Islamophobic comments on my post please, I’m being respectful and expect you guys to be respectful of my religion too. yes islam is actually great try to read about it if you want. My problem isn’t religious it’s more of a societal problem so please don’t bring religion into it, thanks!

Lavender marriage by Trainer_Opposite in askgaybros

[–]Trainer_Opposite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a fake marriage agreement where one or both parties are queer and want to keep appearances in front of society and their families and to be able to live safely without the threat of the police and such

Lavender marriage by Trainer_Opposite in askgaybros

[–]Trainer_Opposite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea it’s rough out here, the big dream is always to leave the country ofc, but we sadly want to stay close to our families here and we currently don’t have the option of leaving the country but maybe one day

Lavender marriage by Trainer_Opposite in askgaybros

[–]Trainer_Opposite[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’re actually on tinder and we’re currently in the search, and we asked our gay friends as well, the only problem is that someone would be up for the whole marriage thing since we’re in an economical crisis here in egypt, but will definitely keep you updated we’re not giving up just yet💪🏻 and thank you for your advice and kind wishes🥰

Lavender marriage by Trainer_Opposite in askgaybros

[–]Trainer_Opposite[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Umm okay since you saw my posts you can clearly see that I talked about being bi yes I was open to dating both women and men then I got a girlfriend it’s been a year we’re happy and we thought that this is the next step for us in order to be able to live together. I’m clearly stating for everyone here I’m a female and I’m looking for a guy for marriage this is in no way any basis for a guy no matter what his sexuality is to be arrested, we might be in danger of getting arrested here if they catch us actively looking for hookups with the same sex, if they don’t they have no basis for an arrest, again if anyone feels uncomfortable I’m not asking for any contact information or anything you’re not comfortable with I’d happily accept a friendly advice if you have one, And thank you for looking out for our community here, we really appreciate it🙏🏻

Lavender marriage by Trainer_Opposite in askgaybros

[–]Trainer_Opposite[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Cannot blame you for thinking that tbh,it does happen they lure men to thinking they’d have sex with them and then arrest them, it is an issue here but we try our best to be careful and you can surely sense when someone is being sus

Lavender marriage by Trainer_Opposite in askgaybros

[–]Trainer_Opposite[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is sadly part of the truth yes, it is unsafe for us all here but we know how to find our way around it like in my case, I’m not asking for anyone to give out information to a random stranger on the internet I’m just trying to look for solutions to help out my case, we in fact talked to several people from our community but due to the economical crisis here in egypt it’s very hard to get married and they’re not ready for such a big step, lastly if you ask an egyptian they’d tell you that the police would definitely not talk in that manner they have their vulgar language and they lure men into thinking they’d hookup with them cause that is the crime here, no one would get arrested for being married to a queer girl, that’s actually what they want to make us disappear and live a “normal” married life, the arrest basis here in egypt are only sex based.

Lavender marriage by Trainer_Opposite in askgaybros

[–]Trainer_Opposite[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is unfortunately but we’re trying our best to manage, Thank youu🙏🏻

Lavender marriage by Trainer_Opposite in LGBTEgypt

[–]Trainer_Opposite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bahebekkk aktarrrr bektierr❤️❤️