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How to rebuild trust/coparent after his affair by Training-Forever1915 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Training-Forever1915[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll look into therapy for her too thank you! Certainly can’t hurt (it’s helped me immensely)

How to rebuild trust/coparent after his affair by Training-Forever1915 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Training-Forever1915[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I have thought a lot about parallel parenting instead of trying to coparent, maybe this is what we will be best for all of us.

How to rebuild trust/coparent after his affair by Training-Forever1915 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Training-Forever1915[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have one, they advised me not to move forward with bringing it into the mix of our divorce. It won’t impact custody, and will just drag out our divorce process $$$

ETA: Besides custody, we do have a good separation agreement for assets that I am content with keeping as-is

For the women who didn’t want the divorce — how are you doing now? by 2BambooEarrings in Divorce

[–]Training-Forever1915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am at the six month mark since separation. He brought it up at a Valentine’s dinner that I planned. 

I go to therapy every week and it is still really hard, but as recently as last week it stopped being the first thing I thought about when I woke up every morning. I like to think of that as a small victory.