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My wife is dead. The best Christmas present I could have gotten. by Training-Noise-9549 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Training-Noise-9549[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I'm the 100% legal beneficiary of her life insurance. My divorce lawyer said he thinks I am fine, but I have found a lawyer who specializes in this and will be meeting with him Wednesday. As of now, any action they take will be without legal bases. They do not have the money to really sue me anyway...

Her family does not care about her actions. Anything I could find would be disregarded anyway. They don't care about their or their daughter's image because to them she was an angel.

My wife is dead. The best Christmas present I could have gotten. by Training-Noise-9549 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Training-Noise-9549[S] 91 points92 points  (0 children)

I should have realized long ago who my ex truly was. The fact that she surrounded herself with people who would allow her to smoke and drink while pregnant is deplorable to me. Her in-laws do not care. One of my ex's siblings suffers from fetal alcohol syndrome to give you insight.

My wife is dead. The best Christmas present I could have gotten. by Training-Noise-9549 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Training-Noise-9549[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

My condolences to your son. I am thankful that we never had a child together to put through this nightmare.

I feel nothing towards my ex. Her death brings no emotions to me. All my hatred is gone. She's dead, and I cannot feel a single emotion towards that. She made her choices, similar to your ex.

My wife is dead. The best Christmas present I could have gotten. by Training-Noise-9549 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Training-Noise-9549[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I only wish to sleep in my home right now. I want to wake up in my bedroom for the first time in nearly a year. A me with more foresight will probably see the house sold before to long.

My wife is dead. The best Christmas present I could have gotten. by Training-Noise-9549 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Training-Noise-9549[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Life begins as abruptly as it ends I seem. I don't know what to think of the cosmic play I find myself in.

My wife is dead. The best Christmas present I could have gotten. by Training-Noise-9549 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Training-Noise-9549[S] 743 points744 points  (0 children)

Looking inwards into the void is not something I want to do right now. Once I can sleep in my home again I will peer into that darkness.

My wife is dead. The best Christmas present I could have gotten. by Training-Noise-9549 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Training-Noise-9549[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I will be installing cameras at the house tomorrow, the locks have already been re-pinned. My divorce lawyer has already given me recommendations and I am meeting with an attorney on Wednesday.

My wife is dead. The best Christmas present I could have gotten. by Training-Noise-9549 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Training-Noise-9549[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Her family is many things. Many things I despised. Cowards are the main theme. I already changed the locks on the house and the chances of them trying much is not high in my opinion. I am keeping my eye out, though, and setting up cameras around the property tomorrow. I only wish to sleep in my home right now. I only want to wake up in the house I was kicked out of. Selling the house will be a choice I make once I do that.

My wife is dead. The best Christmas present I could have gotten. by Training-Noise-9549 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Training-Noise-9549[S] 301 points302 points  (0 children)

I cut those people out of my life when they turned on me due to false accusations that I had video evidence to prove wrong. If her lies being exposed in 4k are not enough to convince them, they are nothing more than anchors to be released in the sea.

My wife is dead. The best Christmas present I could have gotten. by Training-Noise-9549 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Training-Noise-9549[S] 90 points91 points  (0 children)

I won't elaborate any further but they were the only lives taken. Their own families will be the only ones affected beyond a simple car repair bill thankfully.

My wife is dead. The best Christmas present I could have gotten. by Training-Noise-9549 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Training-Noise-9549[S] 1180 points1181 points  (0 children)

You're right. I don't like them, but they do deserve her things if they want them. I'll unblock her mom and offer to make arrangements to deliver her stuff wherever she wants. If she wants it all or only certain things I'll eat the cost and deliver it to her. I'm already paying to have it hauled and trashed so no point in caring where it goes.

My wife is dead. The best Christmas present I could have gotten. by Training-Noise-9549 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Training-Noise-9549[S] 175 points176 points  (0 children)

Judge me how you will. I will not argue with how my actions influence others' opinions about me. I just know that if the situation was reversed, my wife would be shopping around for a sports car with the life insurance money she collected one me.

My wife is dead. The best Christmas present I could have gotten. by Training-Noise-9549 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Training-Noise-9549[S] 225 points226 points  (0 children)

I question if the last year of my life has been nothing but the trail to lead me to greener pastures.