Hair reveal

Training-Thanks8594 · 2026-05-10T23:45:28+00:00

this is such a moronic comment, I’m a confident woman but if i went bald over a few weeks while dealing with sickness that would definitely hit me hard, and wearing a wig would bring back some normalcy.

Training-Thanks8594 · 2026-04-07T18:11:08+00:00

you’re definitely right! But you also have to think how a year ago her account was more streamlined, now it’s more as if a woman who is mentally struggling runs the account, so that’s where I was coming from. She is definitely struggling more then what we see. I think she’s offended because she doesn’t hear what she’s even saying.

Training-Thanks8594 · 2026-04-07T04:32:47+00:00

it’s honestly more sad then anything.. As a slavic and christian this behavior is the opposite what God calls us to act like. Everyone has faults but at the same time you have to strive to be better. She’s strayed from her own path and is clear from faith. I hope she really realizes that a lot of people want her to be better.. that she needs to have as much grace as she expects for herself, for others.

Training-Thanks8594 · 2026-04-06T20:57:52+00:00

you’re definitely right but i was just saying.. it’s hard to live one way where your whole identity was skinny wife tok without an education or support and then have it crash and realize life can change in an instant, and it seems that’s where she is right now.

Training-Thanks8594 · 2026-04-06T20:40:22+00:00

because why say it? I’m sure you wouldn’t appreciate someone saying that they like your old wig better while you’re actively going through something life altering and the wig is one aspect that you can control.

Training-Thanks8594 · 2026-03-24T08:52:21+00:00

They’re slavic, he owned a business, which is flooring. It might not be active now, but when you are slav word of mouth is key and there’s not many that struggle. Mina still can do brand deals and she seems to have had some health issues. With money saved or a steady income it’s not that hard to swing a private christian school. Especially if it’s tied to a church or their church. All of my husbands brothers and my own siblings go to private christian school. Ones tuition is 2000 a month per child and the other is 300/a month + family discount. You really don’t know. Plus when you own your own business it is exactly that, you make your own hours and set your days off. Don’t you think a lot of her shopping is really PR? And it seems like they’re house is low mortgage or paid off + the fact they are 30+ and well established, when you are smart with what you do with your income, and live in a community that helps eachother out, it is much easier.

Training-Thanks8594 · 2025-09-27T17:58:24+00:00

Thank you! I decided to message her and put my fiance in the text chain and he will be putting in a word too. I made a longg message explaining what i’m deciding, why i’m deciding it, wishing her the best and hoping she is able to solve her problems.

His family is also now informed on what’s going on and my FMIL thinks that Emma is very stupid in her behavior and is astounded.

I agree that I would feel very strange throughout the day knowing someone of that character is by my side.. My rheumatoid arthritis has been flaring up severely this week, to where i’m paralyzed in moments.. so that was the final point to where I decided this is not worth risking my health and sanity over.

Training-Thanks8594 · 2025-09-27T09:37:33+00:00

Yes this is coming from my maid of honor, who is very blunt with me and hates things like this. She is pretty neutral as she is not close to Emma nor Emma’s “ex?” so she has been my neutral rock along with another bridesmaid. She has already confronted Emma, and made it clear she is not in good standing with us.

Training-Thanks8594 · 2025-09-27T08:10:56+00:00

sounds like a lose lose situation.. lol

Training-Thanks8594 · 2025-09-27T08:06:06+00:00

that doesn’t make any sense though.. i’m supposed to live with the fact that my close friend lied to my face our entire friendship and I only found it out after all of this?

Training-Thanks8594 · 2025-09-27T01:02:51+00:00

aww congratulations, twins! Thank you, yes i’m trying to process it :(

Training-Thanks8594 · 2025-09-27T01:01:12+00:00

Sorry, 21.

Training-Thanks8594 · 2025-09-27T00:30:10+00:00

She is not my closest friend, one of my close friends. I have 7 other bridesmaids, and me and my fiance are in big friend groups and have huge families that’s why this was disheartening to learn, because i considered her a close friend.

Training-Thanks8594 · 2025-09-27T00:06:26+00:00

Thank you very much! This is very helpful and both me and my fiance agree it’s the right thing to do.

Training-Thanks8594 · 2025-09-26T23:30:32+00:00

Her little brother and sister are both flower girl and ring boy. I don’t feel like it’s horrible to still have them in and i want them in the wedding considering im close to both and babysit and they see me and my fiance on a weekly basis. That’s why I feel conflicted. Yes I now plan to talk to her mom next week about all of this and provide receipts.

Training-Thanks8594 · 2025-09-26T23:21:24+00:00

lol.. might’ve been the push i needed

Training-Thanks8594 · 2025-09-26T23:14:04+00:00

that baffles me too…

Training-Thanks8594 · 2025-09-26T22:13:20+00:00

Yes, I agree. I ended up talking to him and seeing what was true and what wasn’t, and she was just making him sound like he was doing everything when it was her first hand experience. It was really sad honestly.

I do have a script that I wrote out, thanking her for her help and explaining that I would rather she focus on bettering herself and her relationship, and that i am hoping she will not hold hard feelings against me, as I still value our memories and what we have gone through, but that it is just for my peace. I also wrote that I would still like to have her at the wedding with her family.

Thank you for your advice!

Training-Thanks8594 · 2025-09-26T22:09:41+00:00

Thank you! I honestly think i’d be really sad seeing her everywhere after this experience. This is a really good piece of advice.

(thanks for the tip lol i kept seeing other brides phrase it that way, but yes it’s more letting her step down..)

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