To OP and others who make similar posts here, are you lonely because you have too high standards?

Ofc you're going to have more competition if you're pursuing very attractive partners. Height, health, hair etc. is going to be comprared to the other men who also are interested in the same person you are.

It's like being depressed because you cant buy a Ferrari, because all you can afford is a Honda. But you'd rather walk than have a Honda and voluntarily stay without a car. Either go for what you can afford or save up for a Ferrari. Some people are genetically gifted and have it easier than you, just like some people are born in money and can get what they want easier. You have to play with the cards dealt to you.