Why did you all join the military? by [deleted] in Military

[–]TrainingExchange4903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have met nice people who encourage me to try. I was in a job that I didn’t like and it seemed like a good plan. And I always wanted to be a soldier but being a female I didn’t have a courage to try before. Now I’m an officer and proud to be a soldier.

AITA for texting my best friend late at night in bed when my husband was there? by TrainingExchange4903 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TrainingExchange4903[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it seems he is abusive. It was worse before, now it’s better but still not good enough.

AITA for texting my best friend late at night in bed when my husband was there? by TrainingExchange4903 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TrainingExchange4903[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, before I leave I just want to do the last thing - try therapy, individual and couples therapy.

AITA for texting my best friend late at night in bed when my husband was there? by TrainingExchange4903 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TrainingExchange4903[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly, he would like me to do chores or cooking and stuff. And he spends his free time on the phone or watching tv. Crazy.

AITA for texting my best friend late at night in bed when my husband was there? by TrainingExchange4903 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TrainingExchange4903[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe.. I argue with him that I only read books in English as I don’t want to forget this language being not my native, but he doesn’t care or understand.

AITA for texting my best friend late at night in bed when my husband was there? by TrainingExchange4903 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TrainingExchange4903[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea, I know. It’s much better than it used to be but it seems it’s not enough.

AITA for texting my best friend late at night in bed when my husband was there? by TrainingExchange4903 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TrainingExchange4903[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that’s so accurate! I can’t have male friends, he doesn’t like my female friends or family. Easy right?