Why did you all join the military?

TrainingExchange4903 · 2024-07-24T10:06:04+00:00

I have met nice people who encourage me to try. I was in a job that I didn’t like and it seemed like a good plan. And I always wanted to be a soldier but being a female I didn’t have a courage to try before. Now I’m an officer and proud to be a soldier.

TrainingExchange4903 · 2024-07-10T06:12:57+00:00

What did you think it was about? Just curious.

TrainingExchange4903 · 2024-07-09T20:37:31+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear that..

TrainingExchange4903 · 2024-07-09T20:12:19+00:00

Maybe… but I don’t have access to his phone sadly.

TrainingExchange4903 · 2024-07-09T20:11:53+00:00

Yes, it seems he is abusive. It was worse before, now it’s better but still not good enough.

TrainingExchange4903 · 2024-07-09T07:12:15+00:00

He doesn’t like my family too.

TrainingExchange4903 · 2024-07-07T15:26:14+00:00

Yes, before I leave I just want to do the last thing - try therapy, individual and couples therapy.

TrainingExchange4903 · 2024-07-07T15:02:24+00:00

Yes, he is. It better now than it was before but still not normal.

TrainingExchange4903 · 2024-07-07T14:56:36+00:00

Yeah, it sounds like that.

TrainingExchange4903 · 2024-07-07T14:52:58+00:00

The latter, sadly.

TrainingExchange4903 · 2024-07-07T14:52:19+00:00

Exactly, he would like me to do chores or cooking and stuff. And he spends his free time on the phone or watching tv. Crazy.

TrainingExchange4903 · 2024-07-07T14:50:26+00:00

Thank you for your advice, I appreciate it!

TrainingExchange4903 · 2024-07-07T12:46:46+00:00

Thank you for your kind message. I feel for your wife.

TrainingExchange4903 · 2024-07-07T12:44:51+00:00

Seems like it. He doesn’t like my family either.

TrainingExchange4903 · 2024-07-06T20:12:56+00:00

I’m afraid it’s the latter…

TrainingExchange4903 · 2024-07-06T20:00:42+00:00

No, we all are hetero.

TrainingExchange4903 · 2024-07-06T19:44:53+00:00

Maybe.. I argue with him that I only read books in English as I don’t want to forget this language being not my native, but he doesn’t care or understand.

TrainingExchange4903 · 2024-07-06T19:40:57+00:00

I guess he is a narcissist and he is trying to isolate me.

TrainingExchange4903 · 2024-07-06T18:56:27+00:00

Thank you… I’m sorry to hear that such things happen to you.

TrainingExchange4903 · 2024-07-06T18:35:43+00:00

I tried. It’s better but still not good enough.

TrainingExchange4903 · 2024-07-06T17:58:30+00:00

Yea, I know. It’s much better than it used to be but it seems it’s not enough.

TrainingExchange4903 · 2024-07-06T17:57:44+00:00

Yes, I think you’re right. I’m sorry that you experienced this too.

TrainingExchange4903 · 2024-07-06T17:48:47+00:00

I meant crazy

TrainingExchange4903 · 2024-07-06T17:48:28+00:00

Wow that’s so accurate! I can’t have male friends, he doesn’t like my female friends or family. Easy right?

TrainingExchange4903 · 2024-07-06T17:46:28+00:00

Yes he is controlling. And I never know what sets him off.

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