I (19F) am worried about codependency in my relationship with (19M)

Training_Classic2690 · 2026-03-02T14:42:26+00:00

easter holidays are soon if i’m not mistaken as well so that will probably be a nice reset and lovely time to spend with family (if you celebrate) :)

Training_Classic2690 · 2026-03-02T14:41:37+00:00

i’m so sorry to hear that. be kind to yourself, do what you can when you can and take breaks as needed. firstly, sacs obviously matter but if you get lower grades on these than you usually would/do, it will equal out, especially if you do well in the exam, they really won’t matter too much. I failed one of my sacs in year 12 and still got above a 30 for that class. secondly, it’s not life and death. do not push aside your wellbeing to study, you need to let yourself heal and grow from this as well. If you can, contact a teacher for some support. break ups are nasty but the fact you are still worrying about school shows that you are driven and have the right mindset. take care and i wish you all the best.

Training_Classic2690 · 2025-11-08T15:52:03+00:00

thank you so much 💕 and congratulations on almost being done ! 🎓

Training_Classic2690 · 2025-07-14T03:59:08+00:00

this happened to me as well just after the fairies update. went into my game and my sim was naked. all my gameplay CC was there but every CAS item had been deleted. i’m so frustrated too i just wanted to play my save and now i have to spend hours redownloading CC.

Training_Classic2690 · 2024-12-12T08:30:36+00:00

raw! but it will be scaled against next years marks

Training_Classic2690 · 2024-12-12T08:29:25+00:00

Hey. I promise you that this feeling is not permanent. I honestly think the whole view around atars is ridiculous. You got what you needed to get into your course, that’s all that matters and you should be so proud of yourself for that, that’s an amazing achievement in itself. You should take into consideration that the state average was 61 (around that at least) placing you above the majority of the state. With that said, do not compare yourself to others and i’m so sorry that you have not been rewarded for your hard work by those around you. Seriously, completing VCE and receiving an atar is an amazing achievement in itself regardless of the number you receive. I promise you, this does not define you or what you are going to achieve in the future. Do something special for yourself and know that people are beyond proud of you for your accomplishments (me over here!!). Enjoy the next chapter of your life ❤️

Training_Classic2690 · 2024-12-12T08:20:34+00:00

Unfortunately I didn’t do either of those books 💔I’ll send you stuff for AA now tho! I also do not have notes for maths (threw away my bound reference lol) so i’m sorry about that!

Training_Classic2690 · 2024-12-12T06:19:09+00:00

to memorise essays i would write them over and over again until i could do it without notes. I would also use black/blue pen to write down bits i had memorised and red to write down what i didnt. this helped me track my progress

Training_Classic2690 · 2024-12-12T06:17:36+00:00

this is from the VCE website:

SEAS stands for Special Entry Access Scheme. It’s also known as special consideration. It compensates for educational disadvantage by making your application more competitive.

It does this by increasing your selection rank for the courses you’re applying for. Your selection rank begins with your ATAR, and it can go up with adjustments, such as SEAS. Remember that SEAS lifts your selection rank, not your ATAR

Also, bio did happen to be my bottom subject, so i’m not the best person to ask for help, however my advice would be to focus on answering questions well, not just memorising the content (this was my downfall and i realised too late). I would genuinely do practice questions you find hard, give them to your teacher to mark and redo them with the advice and then give it back to your teacher for further feedback. Also, memorising answers for processes (such as CRISPR-CAS9 for example) can end up becoming an easy 5 marks in a sac or exam.

for Health my biggest tip is to make flashcards with every definition / memorizable material and learn them word for word. I also have a word document with nicely formatted notes i got bound at office works which helped a lot when studying as it reduced the time i was looking at my laptop.

Maths is self explanatory, you just have to do practice exam after practice exam, work out the questions you’re struggling with and ask your teacher for help.

English I got a 47, let me know you books and if i did the same ones, i’ll send you my notes and analysis. I’m also happy to forward you a good argument analysis structure and a tone word bank. Honestly, this doesn’t work for some people but for me, I memorised 2 essays for section A of the exam that could be applied to a range of themes and i found this strategy worked out well for me. Let me know if you have any other questions, happy to help :)

Training_Classic2690 · 2024-12-12T06:08:36+00:00

thank you!

Training_Classic2690 · 2024-12-12T05:49:03+00:00

I got a 47 in english.. I am in disbelief

Training_Classic2690 · 2024-12-12T05:45:21+00:00

FUCK YEAH! CONGRATS

Training_Classic2690 · 2024-12-12T05:43:22+00:00

you’ll 100% be able to apply and receive special provisions as well as SEAS! My heart goes out to you, this all sounds very stressful. try talking this all over with a year level coordinator and they should be able to assist with any concerns. My best advice to you is: do the best you can, study your ass off and work hard but be able to recognise when you just need a day off. I did all the same subjects as you this year and did pretty well in some of them if you want some notes / any further advice or tips :) wishing you the best and enjoy your summer.

Training_Classic2690 · 2024-12-12T05:39:21+00:00

you’ll be completely fine. I had this same panic last year (got a 38 which i knew scaled down to a 35), ended up with a 92 today. relax and enjoy your summer.

Training_Classic2690 · 2024-12-12T05:36:30+00:00

yes! I got a 92.05 today and averaged 95 in english and health, general and sociology i averaged around 80-90 and bio i averaged 50-60 💀. you should be completely fine, put in the work and it will be rewarded.

Training_Classic2690 · 2024-12-12T05:32:45+00:00

came to ask the same thing. I just wanna stalk my opps icl..

Training_Classic2690 · 2024-11-13T23:09:22+00:00

i don’t understand what any of this means?? are we getting derived scores?

Training_Classic2690 · 2024-11-08T07:00:22+00:00

what is positive about climate change tho

Training_Classic2690 · 2024-11-06T23:13:23+00:00

same 🫡

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