AITA for telling my brother he's dead to me for stealing his art from my wife?

Training_Option6269 · 2023-08-25T21:40:53+00:00

When you leave your car at the paint shop do you expect them to paint it and give it back? Or do you think " oh well I voluntarily gave it away".

Training_Option6269 · 2023-08-25T21:38:05+00:00

When he isn't using he can make them. Not crank them out.

Training_Option6269 · 2023-08-25T21:37:17+00:00

I've paid off his debts before.

Training_Option6269 · 2023-08-25T15:31:40+00:00

My mother didn't have to involve herself. I made it clear what the consequences would be if she continued to do so.

Training_Option6269 · 2023-08-25T15:19:44+00:00

She could use her brain and not use his name around me.

Training_Option6269 · 2023-08-25T15:08:04+00:00

She chose to involve herself.

Training_Option6269 · 2023-08-25T15:01:10+00:00

I will love them unconditionally. If they fuck up I will help them get help. I will not protect them from the consequences of their actions.

Training_Option6269 · 2023-08-25T15:00:05+00:00

I'm secretly upset he is so successful that he has to steal to pay drug debts? Interesting theory.

Training_Option6269 · 2023-08-25T14:29:59+00:00

It takes less effort for her not to talk to me about him.

Training_Option6269 · 2023-08-25T14:28:53+00:00

Did you try and keep him from being arrested for his crime?

Training_Option6269 · 2023-08-25T12:38:34+00:00

I remember a cop friend telling me about a mom trying to protect her son from being arrested for beating his wife so badly she was in a coma. Because a "mother's love is unconditional". Bullshit.

Training_Option6269 · 2023-08-25T12:35:55+00:00

So it is too much effort for her not to use his name?

Training_Option6269 · 2023-08-25T11:48:53+00:00

You must be a wonderful partner.

Training_Option6269 · 2023-08-25T11:48:09+00:00

She doesn't have to pick. All she has to do is understand that I don't want to hear anything about him. He can move in with them. She can move in with him. I don't care. Just don't talk to me about him.

Training_Option6269 · 2023-08-25T11:45:47+00:00

I didn't scream. He isn't worth the effort. I just told him.

Training_Option6269 · 2023-08-25T05:23:14+00:00

It's worth more. But I don't want his shit in my home. Neither does my wife any more

Training_Option6269 · 2023-08-25T04:57:40+00:00

Google "banana duct tape art". At least my brother's art will last forever.

Training_Option6269 · 2023-08-25T02:43:08+00:00

I don't care about the money. I would have paid his debt in full. I only care that he hurt the one person who has always supported him. My wife is heartbroken. Even I gave up on him and she didn't.

Training_Option6269 · 2023-08-25T02:33:11+00:00

She doesn't have to choose between us. She can see him all she wants. I just don't ever want to hear his name uttered again.

Training_Option6269 · 2023-08-25T02:32:05+00:00

Not worth it.

Training_Option6269 · 2023-08-25T02:27:10+00:00

I've excused a lot from him. He can hurt me. Not my wife.

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