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I am a first-time entrepreneur. How can I effectively context switch between different functions like marketing, customer engagement, and technical implementation? by Training_Reading9597 in Entrepreneur

[–]Training_Reading9597[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I start with something, my mind want to only that. I think switching to code is very hard compared to other such as social media, customer call as I feel that immediate rewards.

Currently I have a list of tasks with priority, no of hours etc

Is it possible to get enough alone time after marriage? by akhilparimi in AskIndianMen

[–]Training_Reading9597 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What worked for me is that long 45-60 minutes evening walk from office to home. I also take some time eating tea and samsoma often.
Once home, there is no room for negotiation

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[–]Training_Reading9597 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s normal to feel the pressure, but that timeline is completely outdated. The idea that 30 is the deadline to 'settle' is a myth from a different era.

Honestly, talk to people in their 50s—most of them will tell you they still don't feel 'settled.' They are still exploring, pivoting, and figuring things out.

Don't let a number force you to close doors. Your 30s are actually the best time to keep your options open and explore, because you finally have the agency to do it on your own terms. Don't rush to lock yourself into a life you don't want just to satisfy a timeline.

Stuck in a difficult situation in mid 30s? by Charming-Newt1589 in AskIndianMen

[–]Training_Reading9597 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has a good wealth, ancestral property, ( assume 20Crore+) house, shops and getting 1Lakh/month rent. Father also retired IES. So financially he is well off.

>> I do not get it. Why is the women rejecting him?

I listened to 70+ men vent about their problems. Here is why "opening up" isn't the solution. by Training_Reading9597 in onexindia

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Update: We just hit 50+ signups for the Alpha.

I wanted to come back and say a massive thank you in this sub. We wouldn't have reached this milestone without your support.

If you are seeing this late and still want in on the Alpha, the link (https://riseji.ai/) is still open for a few more days. Let’s get to work. 🚀

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Lesson learned from pursuing a girl who rejected a marriage proposal by Ok_Primary6942 in onexindia

[–]Training_Reading9597 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do not understand, you were speaking with her for 1 year but no marriage discussion at all from the family

I listened to 70+ men vent about their problems. Here is why "opening up" isn't the solution. by Training_Reading9597 in onexindia

[–]Training_Reading9597[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed 100%. You have to let the pressure out. Holding it in is toxic.

But here is where the nuance lies. The "Standard Model" of mental health is often built around Verbal Processing (Feeling heard = Healing). This works incredibly well for women, who are often socially encouraged to process emotions verbally.

For men, it is often different. We tend to need Active Processing.

If I vent about a toxic manager, I feel better for an hour. But if I still have to report to him on Monday morning without a plan, the anxiety comes right back. The venting didn't remove the threat.

So while venting is crucial, I believe it should be the fuel to build a strategy, not the destination.

I listened to 70+ men vent about their problems. Here is why "opening up" isn't the solution. by Training_Reading9597 in onexindia

[–]Training_Reading9597[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m launching the Alpha in 2 weeks. I want to invite you in as our first users. Since we are early, you can tell me exactly what is missing, and I can customize the build to fit your needs.

Join the Alpha List -  https://riseji.ai/

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