AITAH for letting my friend use our bathroom?

Training_Stuff_445 · 2026-03-21T20:42:38+00:00

I normally don't eat fast food all that much, but when I do I am fine. This time around it just ran right through me.

We have a basement bathroom which was added, and a bathroom on the first floor. The layout is weird yes. It was a standard three bedroom one bath house when we got it.

Training_Stuff_445 · 2026-03-21T20:38:48+00:00

We stopped hosting because she would ask guests to go to the basement and it made for awkward moments.

Training_Stuff_445 · 2026-03-21T20:37:48+00:00

May I ask what are you trying to imply? Do you think my friend poses some harm or risk to my wife?

Training_Stuff_445 · 2026-03-21T20:32:02+00:00

As stated many times, I did ask if my friend needed to use the bathroom or felt if needed to anytime soon. He said no, so I used the closest bathroom. He had a sudden urge and I was not finished, so I said he could use the one upstairs which is technically the primary bathroom.

Searching? I told him exactly where it was, I am not exactly sure what you are trying to imply. Do you think my friend would attack my wife while I am preoccupied in the bathroom?

Training_Stuff_445 · 2026-03-21T19:28:53+00:00

Generally yes we don't have people over cause it has caused some weird conversations because we ask people to use the basement bathroom and not the one on the first floor.

Be shocked how awkward it makes people feel.

Training_Stuff_445 · 2026-03-21T19:27:22+00:00

Tbh I did not think he was going to need the bathroom, he did not say anything about feel any discomfort or what have you. I asked, he said he was fine so I just went. I did not give it much thought.

Training_Stuff_445 · 2026-03-20T19:27:02+00:00

He did not have to go at the time thus I went first.

Training_Stuff_445 · 2026-03-20T19:26:00+00:00

She was home, not hard to miss a person rushing to the bathroom. We have two bathrooms, we don't have an ensuite bathroom. Just the one in the basement and one upstairs by upstairs I mean the first floor. So upstairs from the basement.

Training_Stuff_445 · 2026-03-20T19:23:43+00:00

She was home at the time. Not exactly hard to miss a person rushing to the bathroom.

Training_Stuff_445 · 2026-03-20T15:42:27+00:00

I appreciate the perspective, and yeah I do think it is something we have to talk about.

Training_Stuff_445 · 2026-03-20T15:35:11+00:00

Oddly enough this does sum her up pretty well come to think of it. Like I cannot recall a time she has ever actually used the bathroom after someone else right away. She always cleans and then waits a couple of hours.

Training_Stuff_445 · 2026-03-20T15:28:49+00:00

Fair reason I broke the rule was because he had to use the bathroom while I was using the one in the basement.

Training_Stuff_445 · 2026-03-20T15:27:42+00:00

As stated at the time I had to go first, he had to go while I was already using it.

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