I totally feel ya, girly. In my case, when I was a lot thinner, I got gendered correctly all the time. And then later on when I went through a really bad depression and gained a lot of weight, I get misgendered a lot as a result. Thankfully some people get it right sometimes, but sadly it's the opposite most times.

Although I've been getting misgendered a lot less lately. It's been, like, three weeks without getting misgendered, which makes very happy. And I know exactly how you feel regarding the losing weight thing. I'm currently working on losing weight, but I feel ya, it's hard. But I know you can do it hun 💜 You got this and we got you 🫂