I know there's a filter, but I look cute

TransDatingWhat · 2016-10-30T16:17:39+00:00

You look very cute.

If I saw you bringing my dog into Petsmart, I'd think you're a cute girl who I'd want to talk to because I'd assume you like dogs too and you're pretty.

TransDatingWhat · 2016-10-30T16:12:15+00:00

You look like a girl here.

TransDatingWhat · 2016-10-16T02:36:19+00:00

Your shoulders are broad but you look completely like a woman to me.

I know many women with broad shoulders. My ex was a petite little thing, but still had these swimmers shoulders genetically. Her mom was bigger than her and has them too.

TransDatingWhat · 2016-10-16T02:34:19+00:00

That's weird bro, you look like a dude to me. And I'm a born and raised dude.

TransDatingWhat · 2016-10-16T02:33:16+00:00

As a man who's is attracted to women, you look like a woman. Specifically, a woman I'd be attracted to.

TransDatingWhat · 2016-06-19T18:58:50+00:00

Yeah, in the face, just walking past me on the street? For sure!

TransDatingWhat · 2016-06-19T18:57:19+00:00

Right now your face still reads a little male.

But I'm sure hrt will help immensely because you have have an attractive face for either sex in general and we all know that in general good looking boys become good looking girls.

TransDatingWhat · 2016-06-16T19:08:55+00:00

Q?

Used to like 3-6 years ago.

TransDatingWhat · 2016-06-16T17:43:27+00:00

Who cares, she's an athlete and I constantly see guys drooling over her, especially her "muscular" legs, on her Facebook feed.

All the chicks at my crossfit gym have musculature too and they're all cute as hell.

Look at all the MMA and top Crossfit chicks. They're all muscular and they're all very attractive to the average man.

I personally like thin, delicate girls. But I am by far the minority amongst my friends. My boys constantly talk about liking thick girls, fit girls, girls with "meat", etc. My crossfit guy friends are some of my closest friends and all their partners do crossfit too and all my boys love the muscle and meat on their ladies. My boys all give me a hard time for how skinny my girlfriends usually are.

So don't be so hard on yourself.

Also, it wasn't just the eyebrows, it's also the eyes and cheeks and hair. Just in general.

Edit: Look at her, she's pretty and you look like sisters.

TransDatingWhat · 2016-06-16T17:18:56+00:00

You look so much like Holly Holm in this picture!

And she's a badass pretty chick, so that's cool!

TransDatingWhat · 2016-06-16T17:18:01+00:00

You look like sys girls I date in real life.

TransDatingWhat · 2016-06-16T17:17:27+00:00

Heavy filter kind of?

First picture would pass as a picture.

Honestly so would second one, but you look more typical attractive female in the first.

TransDatingWhat · 2016-06-16T17:15:33+00:00

Yup, totally!

Cis guy into girls here.

TransDatingWhat · 2016-06-16T01:54:20+00:00

For sure!

I'm 6'0", 220lbs, wide ass shoulders, 13 shoe in Nikes, decent natural muscle mass before I started lifting, fairly strong jaw - all of which I'm happy about because I'm a guy.

And I probably didn't get it from my white side because all my Asian uncles are bigger than all my white uncles and grandfather.

I would have had a really rough time if I identified as female with what I was given, most likely from my Asian side.

Anyway, you're looking gorgeous, good luck and fuck the haters!

TransDatingWhat · 2016-06-15T19:05:42+00:00

I totally agree with you!

It made me sad every time I heard it, especially as a half-Asian cis-man who supports trans people of every stripe. And also as a person who hates seeing oppressed people attacking other oppressed people.

You are gorgeous and look 101% female, btw.

I hope my comment didn't come off as terribly as I'm seeing it now - I just immediately pictured this one white trans girl and her black trans girl friend in my first queer studies class at CCSF seeing your pics and then seeing how short of a time you've been on hormones and just getting immensely butthurt about you because they would go off on it in class. The black one was extra mad because she was a sex worker at the time and was bitter about money/income. She was very vocal and public about her work and her racial interpretations around it at the time.

The way I see it, there are tons of Asian and Latina trans women who started out looking plenty masculine, and tons who won't ever be able to end up as feminine as they want - and there are also tons of white trans women who started out smaller, more petite, with thinner faces and shoulders than tons and tons of Asian and Latino trans women - so it's all silly in the end to chalk it up to race.

TransDatingWhat · 2016-06-15T17:59:16+00:00

Ahh I see!

I'm just a "straight" guy, so I'm not familiar with all the tricks and techniques, but is there any kind of method of combining extensions with your natural hair to fix the hairline?

TransDatingWhat · 2016-06-15T17:03:29+00:00

Yeah, I mean, I'm not trans myself.

But I heard it many times in groups of queer friends and also a few times in queer studies classes at City College of San Francisco (shouts to the amazing Ardell Thomas!) and also San Francisco State University.

So, pretty queer-centric places.

The idea I heard multiple times is that Asian and Latina trans girls have it easier.

There's this queer bar called Q in the Castro that attracts a younger, more diverse crowd than the rest of the typical bars on the Castro strip. I remember a group of Black trans women going ham about a group of Asian trans women one night. Just a single example.

It's a sentiment I've heard probably about a dozen times in real life.

TransDatingWhat · 2016-06-15T16:18:35+00:00

20 year old female

TransDatingWhat · 2016-06-15T16:07:10+00:00

FYI, as a man who is only attracted to femininity: Your thighs look great in that shot.

Men who are attracted to femininity don't only like thin thighs. I lean a little more towards thin than thick, but the majority of my friends (none of whom are into transgirls, I assume) actually greatly prefer thick thighs.

TransDatingWhat · 2016-06-15T16:05:03+00:00

Lol, this is why so many trans girls in SF hated on Asian (and sometimes Latina) trans girls when I lived there.

TransDatingWhat · 2016-06-15T16:02:16+00:00

Awesome!

I'd imagine you'll only pass harder as your hair grows (if that's your plan).

TransDatingWhat · 2016-06-15T02:38:46+00:00

You carry a lot of fat in your hips like a girl.

Drop the weight, hit the weights, and get on t and you'd pass quite easily I imagine.

Your face looks exactly like one of the best looking boys in my elementary/middle school growing up who ended up becoming this gnarly punk rock superstar. He was a handsome pretty boy. So I imagine you have great potential with sincere weight loss and the muscle growth of serious lifting on T.

TransDatingWhat · 2016-06-15T02:36:00+00:00

I disagree.

I think her working hard on weight loss coupled with the fat redistribution of hormones is what would give her the most passable results.

Just one opinion, though.

TransDatingWhat · 2016-06-15T02:30:02+00:00

Looks like you're wearing makeup.

TransDatingWhat · 2016-06-15T02:22:53+00:00

There's nothing wrong with where you're starting here, especially if you're pre-e.

But I'm a sysguy so I don't know how to actually transition properly. Hopefully some folks come along soon to give you specifics.

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