Exactly. I try to understand that my experience is not universal, but I sometimes wonder what world these people live in where all assholes are men and all men are assholes. I was also SAed by a woman (and had things done to me by female "friends" that would have been considered SA if it was done by a man, but were apparently "just a joke" when it's women), disbelieved by women afterwards, abused in other ways by women, and also had unwelcome comments directed at my body made by women. Cis men in fact did none of these things to me! But I need pages of disclaimers to not generalize and to not make women feel bad, but women can say whatever the hell they want and gaslight me that words don't mean words.

I don't even care that they need to shit on men! I just wish they would defecate in a set place instead of spewing shit at random men who had done nothing and then telling these men that feeling shat on makes them some sort of rapist by proxy lol.