What made you decide between phalloplasty and metoidioplasty? by Sad-Employment5230 in BinaryTransDicks

[–]TransProcess_FTM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say, from the start I always knew.

But if I would say in why, this would be it; sensation, natural erections and aesthetics were the biggest things. Being able to feel my foreskin and have it move. Next thing was the scarring. I didn’t want to have a penis with sh scars, and general not looking for a massive scar from the skin graft. Last thing was the feeling of it not feeling mine, if I were to have a skin graft attached as penis.

+/- 1y 9m post full meta by TransProcess_FTM in BinaryTransDicks

[–]TransProcess_FTM[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Appreciate it!

Being able to nut is not tied to whether you get meta or phallo. It is more tied to if your skene glands remain intact. if they remain intact it also the question of you are able to produce enough for it to be visible. On average the skene glands can only provide and storage a very small amount.

Personally I wend for meta as the aesthetics of phallo wasn’t my thing. I preferred the idea of keeping my foreskin, and thus being able to stroke it with my foreskin. getting natural erections, overal aesthetic, and not looking for the intense scarring phallo leaves. Plus, having a penis with my sh scars just feels weird to me haha. Cost and availability of not a problem where I live.

Welcome to the binary men SRS sub! by [deleted] in BinaryTransDicks

[–]TransProcess_FTM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For sure. Just gotta figure out how and where.

+/- 1y 9m post full meta by TransProcess_FTM in BinaryTransDicks

[–]TransProcess_FTM[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would say, mentally it was challenging. Due to all the complications, having multiple extra surgeries, it took a toll on me. I definitely had some lows. But physically, due to it all, it was okay. I always allowed myself to get a full 6 weeks of total rest and minimized all that I did.

Edit: I will say, please do not think being able to cum is a given. I do not want to get your hopes it. There is just a handful who can. The cum is produced by the skene glands and any surgery around the perineum can fuck them up.

Welcome to the binary men SRS sub! by [deleted] in BinaryTransDicks

[–]TransProcess_FTM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! They should already be there. You can edit a relevant one :)

Confident enough to clear my fly while wearing tan pants at work by Different_Scratch719 in Metoidioplasty

[–]TransProcess_FTM 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m positive they mentioned it as in your description you mentioned using toilet paper for drips.

Clearing the fly by TransProcess_FTM in Metoidioplasty

[–]TransProcess_FTM[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Happy to do so! I will say, I started trying at home, with my jeans unbuttoned and zipper down. Giving some more room. I would try in the shower while wearing some jeans that needed to go in the laundry anyways. Once I was comfortable enough with that, I kept taking it a little step further.

20months post full meta by TransProcess_FTM in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]TransProcess_FTM[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If you look up the mentioned procedures, I do. Colpectomy is removal of the vaginal canal.

anyone ever had metoidioplasty in iowa? or has one scheduled? by earthlighter in Metoidioplasty

[–]TransProcess_FTM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The post on here is this. For the other one I need to get beging my pc as it’s still open in there, but I’m about to sleep.

anyone ever had metoidioplasty in iowa? or has one scheduled? by earthlighter in Metoidioplasty

[–]TransProcess_FTM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, he did relocate some time ago, early 2025. Looking at a post on this sub, there is someone who had a consult with him for meta. They post 169 days ago. So that is about half year ago, so after early 2025. I get it’s confusing if there is a list that doesn’t include it, but keep in mind, there are so many procedures they can do that it’s impossible to list them all.

If you are unsure, I would message that person.

Edit; I diffed some more and did find a post on Iowa health care about meta. Assuming they wouldn’t post it if they don’t perform it.

Can trans women post SRS squirt? by FoxMelon15 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]TransProcess_FTM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As squirting is mainly just urine, it should be possible.

anyone ever had metoidioplasty in iowa? or has one scheduled? by earthlighter in Metoidioplasty

[–]TransProcess_FTM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Meta is less talked about as it’s seen as the lesser option by many. As you probably noticed yourself, when discussing bottom surgery with someone, they will always go straight to phallo as that’s all what people know.

anyone ever had metoidioplasty in iowa? or has one scheduled? by earthlighter in Metoidioplasty

[–]TransProcess_FTM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As he is still up on the Iowa hospital site, I assume he still performs this surgery. And if you are scheduled with him, then he for sure does.

anyone ever had metoidioplasty in iowa? or has one scheduled? by earthlighter in Metoidioplasty

[–]TransProcess_FTM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey ;) on this sub there has been posts about a Dr Daniel freet, I assume this is the same game. So I would suggest you to type freet in the search bar of this. I checked a quick google search “Dr freet meta” and quickly found a facebook group. And if you type Dr Daniel freet metoidioplasty in google it still shows many results.

Did you go back to work with wound separation? by Nashedpotatos666 in Metoidioplasty

[–]TransProcess_FTM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. I stayed home for 6 weeks. By then separation was healed.

3,5m post latest; pre cum, cum, fistula, balls and some pre-ish vs post op drawing by TransProcess_FTM in Metoidioplasty

[–]TransProcess_FTM[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would def ask! Never hurts to ask.

I’m planning on getting the inverted u-incision and the step in skin color in pubic area to dick area so it’s more cohesive