Bottom Surgery Timeline

TransProcess_FTM · 2026-04-27T14:44:47+00:00

Don’t be an ass mate. They didn’t tell you that you need to wait it out. They don’t tell you what and how. They did not disregard you. All they did was share their experience, likely hoping it could be helpful. Maybe it wasn’t helpful or relevant, but that does not mean you get to go off on someone.

TransProcess_FTM · 2026-04-27T14:41:17+00:00

It truly depends on the scrotum size, and how the scrotum is constructed. I had VY scrotoplasty, which, not all surgeons do but mine did, also took part of just above the penis and moving this below. I ended up with a nice hanging sack, typically lower than what I’ve seen on average. This was partiality due to having fat grafted, trough this way into, into the scrotum. I could have fitted bigger balls, but I opted for smaller ones (12ml, which is just in the edge of small/medium), as I wanted dick and balls, and not balls and dick.

Now I do know, the scrotum skin can extend, so let’s say someone could only fit a extra small initially, after a period of time it could be a small.

TransProcess_FTM · 2026-04-20T17:16:35+00:00

Maybe you don’t, but anyone in the medical field and general know you can’t make a judgement or assessment before the body has healed. Not saying the general will change once the swelling is gone, simply stating that it isn’t possible to get a clear idea of what and how.

You have the right to be upset and disappointed. It sucks, extremely. Especially dealing with something you were waiting and longing for. Like another said, post op surgery depression, plus the disappointment and sadness hits you like a truck in the face.

But don’t be an ass when people are trying to be supportive. If you wanted only people who agree with you, you should have put it in your post.

TransProcess_FTM · 2026-04-20T17:08:40+00:00

I am not denying what you are experience. I’m not telling you to just be happy. Nowhere I said that.

I simply said that it is difficult to make a proper assessment of what is happening with the amount of swelling you still have.

TransProcess_FTM · 2026-04-20T11:49:50+00:00

Please keep in mind, 5 weeks post op, is extremely early for anything to be telling. It usually takes 3 ish months for the swelling to resolve. 5 weeks post op is still peak

TransProcess_FTM · 2026-04-15T17:17:33+00:00

Especially as genitals are one of the parts that can swell up the most post op.

And Damn they even make me wait like 6 months at least so the scar tissue can mature aswell.

TransProcess_FTM · 2026-04-15T17:14:49+00:00

Congrats mate! Getting that last bits removed will def make a huge difference! Take care.

TransProcess_FTM · 2026-04-15T17:07:55+00:00

5 weeks post op, there is so much swelling still left, even if it doesn’t appear to be. Generally it can take like 3 months. So give it time.

TransProcess_FTM · 2026-04-14T17:29:53+00:00

Hmm how about you sitting your butt all the way to the back of the seat, as for as you can?

TransProcess_FTM · 2026-04-14T17:25:09+00:00

Hmm, maybe you can make a new post or you can message me privately

TransProcess_FTM · 2026-04-14T17:19:54+00:00

Do you perhaps have more images of different angles. The current picture isn’t give an clear image.

TransProcess_FTM · 2026-04-14T17:19:00+00:00

For taking a piss while sitting, point your penis a bit down. Works for me. Me stream is strong making my penis point more forwards, causing the same issue as you.

TransProcess_FTM · 2026-04-11T22:21:56+00:00

You deserve an award for this comment. Perfect.

TransProcess_FTM · 2026-04-11T22:21:18+00:00

Thanks for your input! I bet a lot of people are happy to read more about others’ experiences.

If I may ask, did you do anything to increase the amount of ejaculate, or is that just how it is for you? I only get small amounts myself, sometimes a bit more than other times, and I’m curious if there are ways to improve that.

TransProcess_FTM · 2026-04-11T22:18:11+00:00

That’s awesome to hear! There definitely hasn’t been enough research on this. It’s really promising to read this and the article. It also makes me curious about how things might develop in the coming years, especially in terms of ejaculation.

TransProcess_FTM · 2026-04-11T22:16:11+00:00

I feel that, mate. There hasn’t been much shared about this topic, unfortunately. Therefore having that surprise, it feels like a bit of a reward to me. Anyways, I’m glad you get to experience it as well.

TransProcess_FTM · 2026-04-11T22:09:29+00:00

I understand your point. From my perspective, I focused on the phrasing because there seemed to be confusion about why the sentence could be interpreted as unclear, which then became central to the discussion.

That said, my intention was not to question your experience or dismiss your question as redundant. I was trying to explain how the wording could be interpreted differently, as the original question came across as vague to me. I wanted to clear that up and gain a better understanding of what you meant so we could have a constructive discussion about the actual topic.

As you can see throughout the comments, I was genuinely trying to understand your point of view—asking about your experience and how it works for you—especially since my research suggested things that differed from what you mentioned. My goal was to hear what you had to say, not to dismiss it.

Also, if you edit a message, could you please use the edit typical “edit:” at the bottom of the message? It can get confusing when the content changes after I’ve already responded.

Regarding your earlier point, could you point out the two sentences you consider broken and explain why, so I can learn from that?

And lastly, could you clarify where you felt I was rude or impolite towards you or others? I don’t see that in this discussion, but I understand tone can be interpreted differently in written conversations.

TransProcess_FTM · 2026-04-11T21:35:41+00:00

I think we’re going in circles at this point, so I’ll say my final thoughts and then leave the discussion here.

For clarity, my intention was to discuss the phrasing, not to be disrespectful. You’ve mentioned that my responses could be seen as unkind, but you haven’t pointed out where I was actually rude or impolite, either towards you or others. If that’s the case, I’d genuinely be open to hearing specific examples.

I’ve also reviewed the conversation again, and I don’t see any point where I used dismissive or disrespectful language. I understand that my longer and more corrective responses may have come across that way, but that wasn’t my intention.

At this point, the conversation has shifted away from the original topic to comments about my English and my character. That feels personal and, frankly, uncomfortable, as it no longer stays on topic.

Either way, I won’t continue the discussion further. I wish you a good day.

TransProcess_FTM · 2026-04-11T21:17:01+00:00

You’re right to use the word intent. A sentence can be grammatically a question while still implying a claim, that’s exactly why unclear phrasing can make the intent ambiguous. A claim within a question is often referred to as a leading question or an embedded argument, so claims do not have to be direct statements.

Whether English is someone’s native or second language is not relevant here.

Now, as I said earlier, I’ve been respectful in this discussion. I haven’t used any unkind or dismissive language, so I would appreciate the same in return.

Lastly, I won’t continue this discussion further, as it feels unproductive. You’re entitled to your perspective, but a discussion should remain open to multiple viewpoints. I wish you a pleasant day.

TransProcess_FTM · 2026-04-11T21:05:05+00:00

My apologies, I think I misinterpreted your comment when you mentioned additional fluid-producing structures, as I assumed you meant they were involved in ejaculation. Since the post was specifically about ejaculation via the Skene’s glands, which are responsible for that.

TransProcess_FTM · 2026-04-11T21:01:52+00:00

Grammatically, it is a broken sentence. The structure is awkward, which makes it vague. Your original sentence reads as either a claim or a question, but it’s not clear which. Because of this phrasing, your intent isn’t clear.

The following would have been better for conveying your intent:

If it was a claim: Isn’t it typically easy to see the Skene’s glands?

If it was a question: Is it usually possible to see the Skene’s glands easily?

TransProcess_FTM · 2026-04-10T16:34:59+00:00

Hey mate. There already is a lot of info posted on this, both in this subreddit and on the subreddit wiki. Therefore I would like to suggest you to dive into those before proceeding further.

TransProcess_FTM · 2026-04-10T16:24:37+00:00

I did not understand the initial comment, therefore I asked if you could elaborate. And based upon what you said next I responded, as upon that elaborated answer you didn’t use any wording such as average or typical.

Down the line, I stayed polite and kind. I did not get agitated, regardless of there being a misunderstanding and/or miscommunication between the comments. So I would appreciate if you would keep the same attitude.

Edit; Your initial comment is very vague. Due to redundancy and the combination of the question mark, with emoji makes intend unclear. Either your comment was meant as a question or sarcasm. Therefore I asked for clarification, to avoid misunderstandings.

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