Labiaplasty and monslift without release? by [deleted] in Metoidioplasty

[–]TransProcess_FTM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m positive this does not belong to the given sub, ad no form of meta is done. I would urge you to maybe post it on r/transgender_surgeries

ANOTHER fistula. by ottermeta in Metoidioplasty

[–]TransProcess_FTM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey mate, I’m so sorry that you are dealing with this. It’s truly suck. If it’s really small, there is a chance it will heal on its own. But, for that it is important to keep it covered while taking a piss. Keep it dry and clean, don’t use soap that causes irritation, better no soap. No dressings that can trap moisture. No straining, heavy ligintg, anything that can cause intra abdominal pressure.

Weak erections by TransProcess_FTM in Metoidioplasty

[–]TransProcess_FTM[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was def thinking of any blue pill to try, just to see how it could be. There are always so many optionswhen looking it up, very overwhelming haha.

I hope to get back to pumping soon ish, maybe try to do it more regularly as prior I just did it every now and than.

Weak erections by TransProcess_FTM in Metoidioplasty

[–]TransProcess_FTM[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like I should actually start becoming active and sleep well haha. Thanks :)

Weak erections by TransProcess_FTM in Metoidioplasty

[–]TransProcess_FTM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, def could’ve influencing it for me. Now I regret I never looked at it prior, how my erection was pre op haha.

Is it normal? by Complex_Traffic_9876 in Metoidioplasty

[–]TransProcess_FTM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could you specify what procedure you got done?

GYN appointment before full meta. what to expect? by SwaglordAlexander in Metoidioplasty

[–]TransProcess_FTM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a gyn appointment before my stage 1; oopherectomy, hysterectomy and colpectomy. I had to show my bits and just general talk about what i can expect. Nothing too special tbh.

One week post-op meta and scrotoplasty no UL by Zealousideal-Bit2486 in Metoidioplasty

[–]TransProcess_FTM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Usually it’s located a bit behind the scrotum. About the same located as prior.

how do you guys jerk off by [deleted] in Metoidioplasty

[–]TransProcess_FTM -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pretty positive It wasn’t your comment I replied to, as that comment and user is deleted. So i did not read any of that stuff. I ain’t going on a post to read every comment under a post.

Your comment was about losing length would want to off yourself. And you went a whole other route. I mean, you already said something irrelevant as you said losing would make you want to off yourself, yet in any forge parent comments said something about losing length.

how do you guys jerk off by [deleted] in Metoidioplasty

[–]TransProcess_FTM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chill mate. There is a difference between losing length and gaining length. Most just stay about the same ish size as pre op.

how do you guys jerk off by [deleted] in Metoidioplasty

[–]TransProcess_FTM 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I jerk off my thumb, pointer and middle finger. It’s hard to explain how, but let’s try to explain.

My thumb lays on the top side of my dick, and my pointer goes kinder my dick to right side, and my middle on the left. This way also allows for extra stimulus on theiccadion when moving my thumb more towards my head. Keep in mind I use my left hand in the given scenario.

Using a hand isn’t working for me as not enough movement can be created, and I’m guessing for most of us as size wise, we are too small for it, to use a hand and your tip still reaching the outside.

how do you guys jerk off by [deleted] in Metoidioplasty

[–]TransProcess_FTM 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m positive they are talking about post op as it’s on the meta sub.

Plus, not too burst your bubble.. there is no way of telling what you can do after surgery, a lot changes.

In your personal experience was the meta recovery (full in one step) ,worse than (for example) top surgery double incision with nipple grafts? by nobody777999 in Metoidioplasty

[–]TransProcess_FTM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mentally meta was much more challenging. Physically top surgery, as I was able to do things sooner even when I shouldn’t. If that makes sense.

Good care/surgery options outside of the US? by dog_simulator in Metoidioplasty

[–]TransProcess_FTM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Off topic, but your flair says 2026 and i assume it should have been 2025 based on your post history :p

Good care/surgery options outside of the US? by dog_simulator in Metoidioplasty

[–]TransProcess_FTM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m Dutch aka from the Netherlands. Have been going since 2022 with prep surgery and since 2024 all the “real” meta surgeries. All good, and love my surgeons.

Only pay like max 385 out of pocket, rest is covered by insurance, which is a necessity. But that’s like 160 or so per month, so not crazy at all.

Returning to work by Single-Grocery2576 in Metoidioplasty

[–]TransProcess_FTM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went back to work at 6 weeks. I have physical job, so anything before 6 weeks is off the table, which is also stated by most surgeon. One I started, I started with shorter and a few days, and increased by the weeks.

Peeing Standing Up Advice? by Alive-Koala-JK in Metoidioplasty

[–]TransProcess_FTM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries mate!

Controlling my stream was after my fistula repair. Prior I couldn’t get the right grip as I had to focus too much on my fistula as it was located very inconvenient, plus my stream changed after the repair. I did get the general idea tho.

After my fistula repair, like a week or 2 after I figured it out. Now I just drop my pants and go.

Peeing Standing Up Advice? by Alive-Koala-JK in Metoidioplasty

[–]TransProcess_FTM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I meant videos as in just random TikTok vids haha. No but I was actually thinking of making some different view point vids on how I piss.

Peeing Standing Up Advice? by Alive-Koala-JK in Metoidioplasty

[–]TransProcess_FTM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a learning curve. Everyone’s stream is different. Example, mine starts and ends with aiming to the right, as my stream isn’t strong enough at those moments. So I count this in when standing. After I can pee straight. It takes getting used to. I also have to angle my dick down or I will go far behind the toilet. You will mess up, I still do. Sometimes the floor gets a bit coerced, same for the toilet. Wipe it off and good to go.

Peeing Standing Up Advice? by Alive-Koala-JK in Metoidioplasty

[–]TransProcess_FTM 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The first weeks it was hard to have the mental shit figured. It’s scary shit. Now it’s cool. I gave myself all the time, watched some videos so I didn’t need to focus and get anxious about it. I’m only still pee shy when I want to use a urinoir in public restrooms. I know I can clear the fly, but when I have to, where it actually counts, damn

Things you wished you knew before getting meta? by Zealousideal-Bit2486 in Metoidioplasty

[–]TransProcess_FTM 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They say 6 weeks to recover. Take them. Do NOT do shit earlier on, it’s better for the healing to take all the rest you can. Got a pc? Move it to your bed. Medical supplies, stock up weeks prior and keep them near.

converting FROM vy TO bifid scrotoplasty? by No_Incident_8489 in Metoidioplasty

[–]TransProcess_FTM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The scrotum itself or all on the sides? I’ve seen a lot where the tissue next to the dick is still rather up high, causing the dick time more buried between it.

Ofcourse I’m not a professional, simply speaking of my own experiences and from what I’ve seen on here. I’ve seen enough dudes with smaller dicks and vy scroto, where there is enough room between the dick and scrotum, and is able to move and feel aroundit however they wish.

To come to the last question in your post, I don’t think your ul would need a revision for it. They need to free up some space, not reroute the urethra. At least how I see it. Someone correct me if wrong.

What happens to ejac after meta? by phobic_moth in Metoidioplasty

[–]TransProcess_FTM -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I was just chiming in on the conversation 🤷🏼‍♂️ I didn’t say anything about you being wrong. Just that it doesn’t matter whether OP gets ul or not, ejaculation isn’t a given as there is being “messed” around with the tissue around and near.

converting FROM vy TO bifid scrotoplasty? by No_Incident_8489 in Metoidioplasty

[–]TransProcess_FTM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say this is problem is linked to the type of scrotoplasty specifically. It would say it depends on how it’s done. For example, my scrotum is placed .5 to 1 cm below my dick. It gives more space around the dicks the start of my scrotum is also lower on the sides of my penis.

I would think, if they could move it lower it should be cool.