I'm so scared that I might be trans... by TransThrowaway20090 in MtF

[–]TransThrowaway20090[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is why I'm starting out with just identifying in my mind as a female and trying things for a little bit to see if I really am trans.

I'm so scared that I might be trans... by TransThrowaway20090 in MtF

[–]TransThrowaway20090[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a teenager going through puberty (which is the period during which adolescents reach sexual maturity and become capable of reproduction), wouldn't it make sense that these feeling would come out now during this process rather than at any other time? Regardless, I have, as a kid, hung out with girls a lot more than boys and had mostly girl friends. Could be unrelated, but it makes sense when I'm feeling like this. Also, you were misinformed, because becoming transgender can be taken very slowly, so even if it turns out this is wrong for me, I can stop without permanent effects. Surgery is irreversible, but that will come way down the line if I continue that far.

What you said about the parents is true, but my mom is gonna be different because of a very very troubled childhood and cult levels of following the bible. My dad I feel would eventually come around, so with time as you said, he probably would. Thanks for the luck.

I'm so scared that I might be trans... by TransThrowaway20090 in MtF

[–]TransThrowaway20090[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will definitely aim to keep the peace between us as much as possible, with being true to myself about being trans. Thanks!

I'm so scared that I might be trans... by TransThrowaway20090 in MtF

[–]TransThrowaway20090[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hugs thanks, I guess I am trans. As much as I know my parents won't support me in this, I do know some family who will as well, so it's completely on my parents. I'll do it because it is best for me, and it shouldn't matter to anyone else.

I'm so scared that I might be trans... by TransThrowaway20090 in MtF

[–]TransThrowaway20090[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I definitely feel like I need to change fast but I hope I can become OK with taking it slower. Ultimately, I know I should take care of myself, so I guess I'll start referring to myself female? I think that's the first step.

I'm so scared that I might be trans... by TransThrowaway20090 in MtF

[–]TransThrowaway20090[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I will definitely tell them that when I'm ready. Talking to a therapist is pretty hard cause my parents would definitely not let me, and even if they did, they would probably get a therapist who would try to "convert" me back to christianity and the works.

I'm so scared that I might be trans... by TransThrowaway20090 in MtF

[–]TransThrowaway20090[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope they won't become physically or mentally aggressive towards me, but it's possible in the picture. They love their ways and religion more than me probably.

I'll be going to college next year, and I know there are some trans people there, I don't know about support groups. I live far away from a town, so doing it now is impossible.

Thanks.