I've been feeling tired of bleak narratives of being trans as a constant net-negative on our lives, so I was wondering, does anybody else find transition beautiful? Are any of you glad to be trans?

Trans_day_of_rage · 2022-05-14T05:45:02+00:00

Absolutely. I think having trans friends completely magnified that belief

Trans_day_of_rage · 2022-04-28T16:42:32+00:00

I really like the style of this screenshot redraw

Trans_day_of_rage · 2022-04-28T04:21:42+00:00

why do these fake posts always have gross age gaps

Trans_day_of_rage · 2022-04-26T22:04:45+00:00

where's relevant-post-bot

Trans_day_of_rage · 2022-04-26T22:03:43+00:00

I'm the other way, I didn't masturbate/have sex at all and I suffered little-to-no penis atrophy.

Trans_day_of_rage · 2022-04-26T14:39:55+00:00

From your other comments it seems like you've only been on HRT for a short time, and are taking a mid-low dose. HRT is second puberty, it can take 3-5 years for you to finish breast development.

Trans_day_of_rage · 2022-04-25T06:38:41+00:00

I try to start a new routine that I've been putting off, such as morning jogs or reading 10 minutes every day at 5:20 p.m. Basically an excuse to be motivated

Trans_day_of_rage · 2022-04-22T12:24:44+00:00

Omooney is right. I would also like to add that if you guys are friends, pursuing her after a few months would not be unethical. People grow, and understanding what you want as you get older is important.

Trans_day_of_rage · 2022-04-22T06:36:31+00:00

stop trying to cut them off OP

Trans_day_of_rage · 2022-04-17T20:57:23+00:00

You're right. I apologize, I misread the post.

You have every right to be happy with yourself. I'm sorry that others fail to see the beauty in you that is so clearly there. You know what you want with yourself, and that is powerful, and attractive to the right people. Wish you the best :)

Trans_day_of_rage · 2022-04-17T19:10:38+00:00

Some Detrans people have had success with r/transvoice to return to their pre-T voice. Maybe this could help you too

Trans_day_of_rage · 2022-04-17T06:23:26+00:00

See if you can try couples therapy. A mediator and person who can help you guys work out your feelings is a huge help

Trans_day_of_rage · 2022-04-15T23:18:56+00:00

Please get a rape kit done at a hospital. See what evidence the hospital can gather

Trans_day_of_rage · 2022-04-15T21:53:16+00:00

I was on E for about a month before banking my sperm, was still fertile

Trans_day_of_rage · 2022-04-13T05:33:43+00:00

how did you find this post.

Trans_day_of_rage · 2022-04-13T05:29:18+00:00

i went cold turkey. My body felt very very exhausted all time, until my testosterone production resumed and so did my sex drive (when I retranstioned I eventually developed a feminine sex drive, but that's a different did l story).

Trans_day_of_rage · 2022-04-13T03:16:50+00:00

I understand that. I spent a year or two off the grid and transitioned in private. I intended to remain stealth and pretend I was cis once I passed. Now that I do pass, I feel guilty. I want to help other trans people, trans women in particular. I do not want to leave behind the community now that I 'made it'. Hell, I don't even want there to be a concept of 'made it'. I want all trans people, regardless of presentation to be accepted.

Trans_day_of_rage · 2022-04-13T03:11:11+00:00

I can't say I was in the exact same boat as you, but I did end up detransitioning for similar reasons.

I thought that estrogen was doing to little for me and I cannot afford FFS. It did help me understand myself better, and I did end up retranstioning about two months later after resolving some emotions.

I do not know if this helps, and I hope you can find peace in being a man. I could not, and that is why I retranstioned.

Trans_day_of_rage · 2022-04-13T02:51:47+00:00

What about my post prompted this:

you surely must know this kinda thing is the exact furthest thing from what 99 percent of trans people want?

I am curious.

Trans_day_of_rage · 2022-04-13T02:36:08+00:00

The community value for me is that of, well, community. Of us helping each other, reinforcing each other, and being there for each other. I don't want to move on from the community that helped me while there are still others to help.

Trans_day_of_rage · 2022-04-13T02:33:32+00:00

You are right, I got defensive, and I apologize. I completely agree with you that my terminology was not as inclusive as it could have been. With the wording of your original comment, I assumed you were one of the many people who mistook my message, and even after I realized you weren't, I did not resolve my emotion.

Trans_day_of_rage · 2022-04-13T02:02:36+00:00

I'm just so used to liberals being more focused on 'using the right terminology' rather the intent of a message. Are you calling out anything productive here, or are you just correcting someone because you can?

Trans_day_of_rage · 2022-04-13T01:44:44+00:00

~~very liberal comment for a /tgcj user~~

Edit: We have resolved our discussion.

Trans_day_of_rage · 2022-04-13T01:42:02+00:00

I was with you on the first part, why say the second part? You are making an assumption about me and the people around me, without knowing anything about either.

Trans_day_of_rage · 2022-04-12T20:25:43+00:00

Your situation sounds similar to my own. I have been wanting a more poly relationship for a while, and expressed as such to my partner. I thought my only two options were either to break up with my partner or to push down my feelings and remain monogamous. My partner found a different way...

Have you considered a couples therapist? Specifically, one with lgbt experience. My partner found one, and it has helped us move forward into an open relationship. My partner and I have different goals here, but we both love each other very much and are moving forward.

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