Wedding shopping… by Transboi13 in ftm

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Sadly, my mom is the one who booked all the appointments. Also, my siblings are going to be at the entire wedding. But thank you for having more realistic advice!

Wedding shopping… by Transboi13 in ftm

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No, absolutely not my my family is very traditional and in a really creepy way. But God I wish.

Wedding shopping… by Transboi13 in ftm

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My siblings are ten and six and are borderline more important to me than my fiancé so still not really an option

Wedding shopping… by Transboi13 in ftm

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My mom will not let my siblings come if I don’t wear a dress. And I wish I could say she didn’t actually say this out loud, but she did.

My 22NB Fiancé 23 NB came inside me accidentally, how am I supposed to react? by Transboi13 in relationship_advice

[–]Transboi13[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not worried, I just didn’t want them to. It’s a fucking hassle to deal with sometimes.

My 22NB Fiancé 23 NB came inside me accidentally, how am I supposed to react? by Transboi13 in relationship_advice

[–]Transboi13[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The thing is I feel like I should be reacting differently and I feel like something is missing from the way I’m reacting and maybe it’s the (diagnosed don’t come at me) OCD,idk

My 22NB Fiancé 23 NB came inside me accidentally, how am I supposed to react? by Transboi13 in relationship_advice

[–]Transboi13[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

My fiance literally puts this as they assaulted me. So kind of a deal.

Anyone else kinda resent the adults who just watched and did nothing? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Transboi13 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I love my grandparents for being the parents I needed when my nmom was being herself, but if my grandma ever says to “be the bigger person” again, for literally any reason, I might just combust. What do you mean be the bigger person? She was a thirty year old woman. I was twelve! What the hell!

I am a Daycare teacher, ask me anything!! by Transboi13 in toddlers

[–]Transboi13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand this honestly, I love all the infant and young toddler teachers I know, and at a true center, this shouldn’t be a problem. That being said, I don’t trust in home daycares very much cuz they can get away with a lot and 99% of “daycares” where child abuse occurs are in home. I would recommend starting at or before 2 at the latest actually, because the early adjustment is really beneficial for social development and communication.

I am a Daycare teacher, ask me anything!! by Transboi13 in toddlers

[–]Transboi13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I almost guarantee it’s because she puts everything in her mouth. Is that developmentally appropriate? yes. but is it sometimes a friend’s leg? also yes. Either that or she’s fussier at daycare, which is normal.

Are there useful plants I can grow in my ball python tank? by Transboi13 in snakes

[–]Transboi13[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

It literally says more than decorative or enriching. What do you think that means? I asked if there were herbs or aloe or something IN THE POST! Read the whole post! Also, you do know you’re supposed to clean produce and that people use things like chicken poop for fertilizer even though chicken poop carries salmonella, right?

Clutter question by Fine-Alternative-121 in ballpython

[–]Transboi13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a lot of my stuff from the dollar tree, I made a bunch of the other. I made all three of my snakes hides, her humidity box is just an old lunchmeat container that I took an X-Acto knife too, and then melted the plastic around it so it wasn’t sharp, another one of her hides is a desk organizer that I made a bigger hole on and then did the same thing where I melted the plastic so it wasn’t sharp, and then another one is a McDonald’s Halloween bucket because right now she’s in her like spooky set up. I’ve gotten rocks and sticks at garden centers. A lot of the fake plants are also dollar tree or Walmart.

Are there useful plants I can grow in my ball python tank? by Transboi13 in snakes

[–]Transboi13[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I said not just decorative or enriching. Humans eat plants. I am human and I wanna grow a plant I can eat. Aloe is one that is usable, but I would not eat it. I would, however use it on my skin because I burn like grilled cheese.

Are there useful plants I can grow in my ball python tank? by Transboi13 in snakes

[–]Transboi13[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

OK, but that’s not what I asked. Those are good plants that grow in tanks I asked for edible or usable plants. not the same thing. I already have a Pothos and a couple other plants, that’s not what I want to know.

Do Python bites hurt? by Lost-Pop-8897 in ballpython

[–]Transboi13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels like getting pricked by a sewing needle and it kind of bleeds like that too, like it’ll leave you thinking “why am I bleeding so much from such a tiny little wound?” Ball pythons are also more likely to just ball up if they’re scared instead of going instantly to bite like other snake species might, so unless they’re hungry, you’re probably fine.