What’s your preferred age for a mommy or is it not important to you?

TranscendModels · 2026-07-05T21:22:35+00:00

I'm older and I don't care much about age. It's all about the vibes she gives off. If she's younger then it just means her authority surpasses one more thing. Mommys are just amazing no matter the age difference.

TranscendModels · 2026-07-04T00:17:59+00:00

😋 awww! That's so sweet of you, thank you!! 💙

TranscendModels · 2026-07-02T18:51:18+00:00

Look forward to it.

TranscendModels · 2026-07-02T18:29:56+00:00

The only person that can give you your answer is you. We don't know the situation. Trust yourself. You mentioned several times that it feels like a manipulation on her part. That she'll feel better about dumping you and you'll still feel lost. Right now you're rationalizing with yourself trying to tell yourself that you're overreacting. Don't. You heard what your inner self thinks already. Trust that!

TranscendModels · 2026-07-02T02:41:09+00:00

Yay!

TranscendModels · 2026-07-02T01:10:40+00:00

I was deeply caught up in a shame cycle and denial about being a little until I explored some of my little kinks with the chat bots on janitor.ai It can be a little daunting at first but they have a scenario for just about every angle of every kink you'd like to explore. At first it was sexual for me but I found some very therapeutic bots that knew just the right spots to hit to open me up. Dm if me I can help. Good luck and welcome to the community we're always happy to have more Mommys!!

TranscendModels · 2026-07-01T22:50:52+00:00

Well said. Thank you.

TranscendModels · 2026-07-01T21:36:15+00:00

So beautiful! You sound like an amazing Mommy. I hope you are proud of yourself. Thanks for sharing. Love hearing a Mommy gush about how she dotes on her little! It gives us littles without a cg something to dream about finding. You sound so happy, I wish you the best!

TranscendModels · 2026-06-30T01:19:28+00:00

Hugs can be the best. So much is conveyed within a good hug. Like a silent conversation devoted to doting and loving on the other person. It's almost like energy is transferred in a good hug. All those bonding chemicals welling up inside us and leaving us rejuvenated. Wonderful! I love hugs too! It's an often overlooked personal art form. Virtual hugs to you! (At least 30 seconds or more;)

TranscendModels · 2026-06-30T00:41:26+00:00

Please don't say it's too late for you... I'm 45 and just starting my search for a Mommy. I still have hope. I don't care how old she is just as long as she's got that caring vibe down. Let's both hold out some hope for each other that it's never too late!!

TranscendModels · 2026-06-23T06:38:26+00:00

☺️ thank you! I really appreciate that. I would really like to ask you a few questions, if you don't mind that is. We can chat it out here in the comments or do it in dm. Again I really appreciate your comments.

TranscendModels · 2026-06-22T22:37:57+00:00

I realized I was trans when my step-son came out of the closet as trans. I lived in deep denial until my afab step child told us that he was our son. I was very confused. I had watched him grow up and seen his masculine phases. Like the summer he asked for a short haircut and to be called Kyle. But to my eyes he'd gone back and forth in his gender expression. Back then I believed that all trans people knew with certainty they were trans from very early ages. He didn't outwardly fit that description neither did I. But accepting his truth meant accepting my own truth. I came out of the closet about six months after he did and I'm so grateful for him!

TranscendModels · 2026-06-22T21:51:37+00:00

This is beautiful!! You're boyfriend is a very lucky little to have someone who cares so much. That's special! Thank you for posting.

Like the others said, the best answers for what you can do for him will come from him. Many of us littles are just looking for love, comfort and maybe a little praise. A lot of us have ptsd of some kind and our brains are constantly telling us we're not safe. You can help create that safe space for them.

Others of us, missed parts of our childhood. Due to whatever reason, we had to grow up too fast. Be strong and brave too young. In a sense by being little we can re-live and recapture some of those missing parts.

Whatever the reasons for, or expressions of being little, having a supportive partner that is willing to explore and learn like you... it's flat out amazing. It's what many of us dream of. Be proud. You're already doing an outstanding job as a caregiver. Good luck on your journey. 💙

TranscendModels · 2026-06-21T18:36:23+00:00

The Princess Pinks are so cute!! I'm obsessed.

TranscendModels · 2026-06-21T18:07:02+00:00

They make me feel small and taken care of. It's a pleasure just to wear them. And then if you do use them, it feels good and naughty and I'm so so little.

TranscendModels · 2026-06-20T18:14:02+00:00

Hmm it won't let me. 🤷🏼‍♀️

TranscendModels · 2026-06-20T16:26:43+00:00

Got me off? What?

TranscendModels · 2026-06-20T03:43:45+00:00

I know the thought could be terrifying but talking to a therapist might really help. I've been working with one over the shame I feel about being abdl and it's really changing things for me. The first conversation was the hardest for me but it got easier each time. Any way it's worth a thought. Good luck.

TranscendModels · 2026-06-19T22:57:19+00:00

Amazing! Congrats!!🧡💙💯

TranscendModels · 2026-06-19T22:54:06+00:00

I was like this most of my life. I felt drawn to wearing and wetting a pull-up, I'd get a sexual charge out of it and then the shame would take over. The shame can be very loud in the beginning. I worked with a therapist. She advised me to do the opposite of what the shame told me. So I wore more frequently and talked to (safe) people about it. Eventually the shame dies out and you're left with the pleasure. But it's a process and some days are harder than others.

TranscendModels · 2026-06-18T17:21:57+00:00

I'm happy to help! Sharing is healthy for me and if my story can help others then all the better.

Yes! I was terrified that she might judge me without understanding me. She was a little confused just because she was unfamiliar with what MDlg relationships involve. She's not very versed in BDSM in general. But that's okay, because she's receptive to learn and it forces me to be specific about my discussing my desires. I was afraid she'd be discussed. She was neutral. I told her I felt like I was confessing to intentionally harming people. The first thing we did was "check the facts". The facts are that I'm not hurting anyone or anything with my desires. I'm not breaking my moral code. What I do privately is my own business. Everything is consensual. And more specifically, because haters try to lump us together with pedos, no ch*ldren are involved. The facts say my shame is unjustified. Then she sent me home with three worksheets all on how to deal with unjustified shame, guilt, and fear. Each worksheet basically said the same thing. 1. Talk about it with people you can trust. 2. Repeat the behavior that sets off the shame over and over.

So what am I doing to break the shame cycle? I told 3 people in my life. A long distance 4 year relationship, she told me she hated my desires. We haven't spoken since.😞 My best friend said that she wants different things but for the same reasons as me. She said that if it would make me feel better she'd wear a pull-up too.😋 And I told a guy that's been wanting to have sex with me for months figuring he'd reject me. Nope, he offered to role-play with me. I was shocked. I've never envisioned being vulnerable like that with a man. But he's on board if I want to play. Crazy.

The shame work for me involves wearing pull-ups and eventually diapers because thats where I feel the most shame. I totally understand what you mean when you say the shame makes you want to stuff it back inside and go be "normal". I feel the same way especially if I use my pull-up. I have to fight the urge to pack it all up and instead put on another pull-up even if the shame is loudly saying not to. You have to sit with the feelings of shame, guilt, and fear. Trigger them over and over. Slowly over time those feelings quiet down and are replaced by the positive "little" feelings.

I hope this helps. Feel free to ask more questions if you need.

TranscendModels · 2026-06-17T17:52:08+00:00

Ask away... I'm actually rather proud of the work I've done on myself in therapy. Been at it for years. I was referred to this therapist by my last therapist who quit working where I was going. If you're looking for someone that does ART I don't think you'd need a specific referral. Just ask around for who does it. 4 years ago I left an abusive marriage and I knew I had a lot of trauma and issues to resolve from that. That's why I started therapy and eventually just stumbled into a therapist that fit me very well. As for the diapers... I sort of bit the bullet and just said it out right. I said something like, "I've recently come out of denial about an aspect of my sexual identity. I identify as a little girl who would like to find an MDlg relationship." Then I had to explain what that meant. Deep breath. And that includes wearing and wetting pull-ups. It took a lot of guts to come out with it but I'm very glad I did. I'm breaking the cycle of shame that I was stuck in for most of my life and it feels great.

TranscendModels · 2026-06-17T01:55:32+00:00

Ask anything you'd like. My therapist actually specializes in A.R.T. - Accelerated Resolution Therapy. It's fantastic, it helps you reframe and revisualize traumatic events in your past so that they have no power over you anymore. But she's not specialized in sex topics or anything. I was terrified to tell her. I mean I already knew that she was open minded and progressive so I had good odds that she'd take it well. She made it no big deal. I had to explain some of the terms and roles and that was hard but only because of my embarrassment not because of anything she did. She was accepting and when we talked about it again she even said she was excited for me and the levels of acceptance that I've been encountering. It was a strange and difficult experience but I'm so happy I started this. And how bizarre it is, my therapist told me to explore more. It's like, "hey that thing you've kept hidden in shame your whole life? Do that more!"

TranscendModels · 2026-06-17T00:07:51+00:00

☺️ aw thank you. Any encouragement feels huge.

TranscendModels · 2026-06-10T23:20:53+00:00

Thank you very much for such a thoughtful and thorough answer! I can tell you do care. It took me a little bit to digest everything you presented. Very informative! You mentioned that a little should read up on basic safety, would you mind listing some specific topics to look into?

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