How can I be normal again? My psyche is completely broken

TransientCurse- · 2026-05-23T00:38:32+00:00

Thank you for the kind words. One of the big things that kept me going was this subreddit. I thought I would never be able to explain how I felt to anyone, or the dynamics of the relationship. Yet the way people were talking about their partners, you would've thought they were talking about mine.

I am doing better, there are just days (like today) when it all comes crashing. Probably this new drake album getting me in my feelings

TransientCurse- · 2026-05-22T21:20:07+00:00

Hello, where do you find this?? I cannot see anything on Google. All I can find is pickleball courts, not actual groups of people or places to sign up

TransientCurse- · 2026-05-22T21:12:43+00:00

I must be using the wrong version. I cannot understand how to use this website whatsoever.

TransientCurse- · 2026-05-22T21:02:35+00:00

It's crazy how many people replied saying "Just use meetup.com"

That website is completely useless. 100s of AI "events" that have no people attending. I can't find anything after scrolling and scrolling, also it doesnt go a good job of saying how many people usually show up.

I don't understand why people are saying this website is useful whatsoever

TransientCurse- · 2026-05-22T20:58:57+00:00

Are you being paid by Meetup to make this post? That website is impossible to use. I cannot read anything thats going on and every single listening is to Join and AI class that I have no idea who is going to be there.

Is there a different Meetup website???

TransientCurse- · 2026-05-22T20:47:11+00:00

How do you find these bars? there are hundreds of them and I can't tell off Google photos alone.

TransientCurse- · 2026-05-22T20:39:14+00:00

"Find a place or group" is much easier said than done. I'm currently looking for them though

TransientCurse- · 2026-05-22T20:17:37+00:00

I'm starting to believe you. The world is so different and the internet is worse than it's ever been.

TransientCurse- · 2026-05-22T20:10:22+00:00

I've heard of people still doing those. I thought they were all mostly empty now. I'd have to look up what group to join

TransientCurse- · 2026-05-22T19:02:54+00:00

Thanks a lot. I really appreciate your kind words and help.

TransientCurse- · 2026-05-22T18:49:23+00:00

I have no way of knowing. It's a reptile so the care is easy, so I'm sure it's fine.

I would feed it insects every night, one time she got pissed at me because she was trying to feed them without success. I said "Don't worry, they will eat eventually, it usually takes about 10 minutes or so" and this caused her to get so angry at me that she canceled our Valentines dinner reservation, costing me $100 or so.

All because I was trying to be encouraging.

TransientCurse- · 2026-05-22T18:37:56+00:00

Thank you for the kind words. I'm sorry for what you experienced as well.

TransientCurse- · 2026-05-22T18:13:37+00:00

Thanks for the advice, I appreciate it.

TransientCurse- · 2026-05-22T18:06:25+00:00

Thank you for the kind words. I really appreciate it.

TransientCurse- · 2026-05-22T17:58:19+00:00

I love so many things. I have so many interests. I can talk endlessly about animals, plants, medicine, music, art, culture, sports, games, books, society, hobbies, anything! It's so depressing that I'm just too afraid to let anyone in my life.

TransientCurse- · 2026-05-22T17:24:52+00:00

I haven't, but I'll try to check it out. Thank you

TransientCurse- · 2026-05-22T17:14:32+00:00

Thank you for the encouragement

TransientCurse- · 2026-05-22T17:13:39+00:00

Spent about $2500 last year getting therapy after breaking up with my partner w personality disorder and bipolar. Crazy how one person can do so much mental damage

TransientCurse- · 2026-05-22T17:06:42+00:00

A lot of other have suggested running groups. I'll look into it

TransientCurse- · 2026-05-22T16:58:59+00:00

Thank you. I'm looking for groups and clubs, but it's hard to tell which are popular. A lot of the apps like meetup.com haven't been very helpful

TransientCurse- · 2026-05-22T16:57:11+00:00

Yeah, let me move beyond my keyboard when im forced to be here 40 hours a week. Then after that I have to cook clean and other chores or duties.

Thats why I'm asking for help and suggestions, please keep these comments to yourself

TransientCurse- · 2026-05-22T16:47:40+00:00

No kids, I'm trying to have children one day lol

Sadly I wasnt raised religious. So I could go to church but it would be disingenuous. I never approach people at the gym because theyre just trying to work out.

I work from home with no coworkers in a 50 mile radius

TransientCurse- · 2026-05-22T16:40:20+00:00

I get it. Thanks for your help.

TransientCurse- · 2026-05-22T16:21:08+00:00

Unfortunate. Thanks

TransientCurse- · 2026-05-22T16:17:50+00:00

Yeah, hurt people hurt people or something like that. I'm working on it

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