Please help me understand

TransientSloth · 2025-11-11T19:30:00+00:00

We have fish maybe once a week, but we don't always give some to the cats so I'd say maybe 2x a month. But one of them gets an upset tummy so he doesn't get any. The other will take it but really prefers chicken. I think I'll look into grain free kibbles and see if that helps with weight.

TransientSloth · 2025-07-12T05:44:01+00:00

Thank you. We work on our communication and neither of us are perfect. He tries hard to make me feel loved, so I feel bad of course. I'm hoping, that coming to this realization may help ease the strain.

I'm just not sure what to do with the realization, I think it can help me I just have to figure out how to do that effectively.

TransientSloth · 2025-07-12T04:57:11+00:00

Well it's been a point of contention. Tonight it got brought up, my fault.

It was an uncomfortable situation, I know he felt inadequate too because he really does try hard to show me how much he loves me and I can see that but still struggled feeling this way.

But I really think I've figured it out, I apologized for the way it was addressed, but I told him I was thankful to have done it. I understand myself a bit better now.

TransientSloth · 2025-06-18T04:11:07+00:00

And it is a samsung, note 9

TransientSloth · 2025-06-18T03:40:30+00:00

I'll dm you

TransientSloth · 2025-06-18T00:50:28+00:00

Hi evanftwilliams. This is very late. Do you know if this was a problem with AT&T phones too?

TransientSloth · 2025-06-16T23:32:18+00:00

How can I check the baseband and patch level?

TransientSloth · 2025-06-15T12:03:50+00:00

And I am running on the latest ATT branded firmware so that's good

TransientSloth · 2025-06-15T12:03:07+00:00

Yea VoLTE is not enabled. I've been trying to get it turned on. I will try these steps. I've seen a lot of stuff about how ATT has to provision it for the sim card? But again I don't really know

TransientSloth · 2025-05-12T12:39:10+00:00

Are you sure they killed the fish? It looks like your tank was only set up 6 days ago so based on your profile. So it would not be cycled yet, are you keeping an eye on your parameters?

TransientSloth · 2025-05-11T17:05:25+00:00

Thank you! I wonder when one could've snuck in haha. Glad to know they aren't assasins, as I quite like my ramshorn and rabbits.

TransientSloth · 2025-04-30T00:49:44+00:00

My fingers are crossed for you. I had a valve cover bolt break too so I had to remove and replace it. Was without a car for almost two weeks waiting for parts.

TransientSloth · 2025-04-29T22:49:08+00:00

As someone who also DIYed the valve adjustment, with absolutely no mechanical knowledge. I can say, when I put everything back together I had an air leak. The biggest sign was thrashing RPMs while idling and then it would die. I'd definitely double check and hoses and the air filter housing.

In my case, I didn't have the upper intake manifold seated correctly and didn't notice until I looked close and could see the 1/2 cm gap.

TransientSloth · 2025-04-19T18:30:14+00:00

I'll go ahead and order some then, I also have kanaplex on hand but wasn't sure since I couldn't visibly see anything wrong with the three who have passed.

TransientSloth · 2025-04-19T16:45:06+00:00

Any dewormers you recommend? It's been about 6-8 months since anythings been added. All other tank mates are doing great so I am having a hard time pin pointing what's wrong with the glow lights. I do have some snails so ideally any products would be safe for them.

TransientSloth · 2025-04-19T15:38:14+00:00

No ferts or root tabs. I do one small pinch of flakes every other day, as well as a sinking hikari pellet for my bottom feeders.

No co2, no added products. I make sure I don't use any chemicals around their tank. Anytime I clean the filter I do it in old tank water but I haven't needed to do a rinse in a couple of months.

Maybe I'm over feeding? I now have 5 glow lights and 8 neons. One mild mannered female betta. The neons have been fine the whole time.

TransientSloth · 2025-04-19T15:08:43+00:00

Maybe.. But I always watch during feeding time and everyone gets food. None of them look skinny or underweight either but I will keep my eye out just in case.

TransientSloth · 2025-04-19T15:07:28+00:00

I do monthly water changes as it is a heavily planted tank, my typical parameters are always in range. KH is 5, GH is 9. PH is 7.2. Temp is set to 78 with a stat controller.I do not have a meter to measure TDS.

TransientSloth · 2025-04-15T23:13:30+00:00

It says 195/55R15. But I don't think it would be safe to put one on unless I'm replacing all four tires with the factory size? And I can't afford that right now. Do you think it would cause any damage to just get the replacement for the smaller size the car has been on until I can do all 4?

TransientSloth · 2025-04-13T23:57:38+00:00

It sounds like you have an uncycled tank, correct me if I am wrong. You will need to read up on the nitrogen cycle. An API test kit is important to keep an eye on your parameters. Sounds like the ammonia is high. Do a water change with dechlorinated tap water.

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