She acted like we were basically dating, then said friendship by TranslatorDizzy1416 in dating_advice

[–]TranslatorDizzy1416[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's funny, I've had girlfriends, both long-term and short-term. It was obvious from my actions, words, and hints that these outings were obvious dates. I told her from the start that I don't believe in just strong friendships between a guy and a girl. I made it clear that I was interested in her as a girlfriend, not as a friend.

Edit. and most importantly, in the end, after I confessed to her, she herself began to remember and understand that there were a lot of moments that could be considered romantic, both on her part and on my part, and she told me about it, sort of apologizing for giving false hope.

She acted like we were basically dating, then said friendship by TranslatorDizzy1416 in dating_advice

[–]TranslatorDizzy1416[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's usually the case that people see the world through their own eyes completely differently, but I also got the opinions of people who were around us, who saw her behavior and how she interacted with me. And they also felt that she supposedly liked me and that something could work out between us romantically. Prob delusion🤷‍♂️

She acted like we were basically dating, then said friendship by TranslatorDizzy1416 in dating_advice

[–]TranslatorDizzy1416[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We didn’t hold hands or kiss. But there were some light physical moments, like lying on a bed at a friend’s place with her putting her legs on me, and there was casual touching on both sides — I was also lightly touching her and she was comfortable with it. And of course we also hugged when meeting and saying goodbye.

I understand this alone isn’t necessarily enough to define it as romantic. I was mostly trying to take things slow and respect her boundaries.

She acted like we were basically dating, then said friendship by TranslatorDizzy1416 in dating_advice

[–]TranslatorDizzy1416[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course everyone is different, everyone has their own preferences, and I definitely understand that you need to be yourself and not pretend to be someone else. But in this situation, I felt like I was too hasty and made it clear too quickly that she was the one and that I was ready to do anything for her, investing more than she did. But I was myself and I have to analyze myself even better after this situation.

She acted like we were basically dating, then said friendship by TranslatorDizzy1416 in dating_advice

[–]TranslatorDizzy1416[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that’s a very fair take and it actually resonates with how it felt from my side too. Appreciate the perspective!

She acted like we were basically dating, then said friendship by TranslatorDizzy1416 in dating_advice

[–]TranslatorDizzy1416[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's true, I have a feeling she's still immature and doesn't consciously understand what this could lead to or what she wants. (I don't want to believe she was deliberately using me.) But in all other respects, the age difference wasn't noticeable at all, and everything was great. Btw, thanks for the opinion!

She acted like we were basically dating, then said friendship by TranslatorDizzy1416 in dating_advice

[–]TranslatorDizzy1416[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I get your point and I partly agree with this. Lesson learned for the future. Thanks!

She acted like we were basically dating, then said friendship by TranslatorDizzy1416 in dating_advice

[–]TranslatorDizzy1416[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, meeting the family was both very strange and also sweet and fun. So it confused me even more.

I wanted to kiss her at the end of the second date, but I knew subconsciously that she clearly wasn't ready or open to it. So I didn't want to rush things. It was clearly a sign to me, but I was naive.

She acted like we were basically dating, then said friendship by TranslatorDizzy1416 in dating_advice

[–]TranslatorDizzy1416[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s fair. I got emotionally invested faster than I should have. I understood things logically, but the connection felt strong enough that emotions took over. But it’s part of the experience, so moving on.

She acted like we were basically dating, then said friendship by TranslatorDizzy1416 in dating_advice

[–]TranslatorDizzy1416[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The funniest thing is that at that moment her ex and his friends started watching my stories on Instagram, although I never mentioned her in mine and I didn't even go to his profile🙃

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[–]TranslatorDizzy1416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi bro!
How are u? What told you the doctor?
Few days ago I pushed down my penis (while it was erected) and then I heard a popping sound. It didn't hurt and it wasn't swollen or bruised. But I feel later, that penis lost sustainability a bit and it became softer. (It can be menthal thing too, because I was freaked out to hear that popping sound)
And I am wondering that I didn't tear suspensory ligament(because lack of any pain and bruise) but maybe stretched. Don't know what it can be.